Desired food

All ladies (wife / daughters etc.) in house to me: Eat this! I want to listen: What will you eat today? None is ready to say this. I am forced to eat against my choice, my need, my taste, my wish. None can eat all. She can not eat all. Giving desired is respect. Giving undesired is rape. I never force them to eat as per my taste. I allow them to eat as per their taste. She: I can not cook all for all. She to children / friend / herself / mother / relatives / son in law etc.: What will you eat today? If son can get food of his choice, why husband is not able to get food of his choice. I have no mother or mother in law. She to me: You are bad. You order. I cook with hard labour and you refuse. Any lady who can say to me: What will you eat today?