Love and best friend

I met her online in 2011 in online game. we used to play that game daily and like wise we started online daily in that game in time we exchanged number as friends. after sometime she needed some help so i helped her a lot and with time our bonding increased and i was very much attracted to her . i loved her voice and everything about her although i only saw her pics . she lives very far away from my place. as time passed we started talking on phone in nights and day .she used to treat me as her best friend but she became much closer to me than that. i couldn't spend a day without talking her, wanted to talk and talk day and night with her. circumstances dint allowed me to go to her place and meet as she is very far. in between we had various fights and she talked of ending friendship. i always used to console her after many days hardship by messaging her and saying sorry and all but 1 person who is 10 years older than her and me is her good friend and he is always the reason for our fight as she start talking him when he comes online and start ignoring me. after 4 yrs when i got a chance last week to go her place. i went there and she denied to meet just because that guy asked her not to meet. plus she broke all sorts of friendship with me and blocked me from everywhere. now i am back from that place with sad memories but i am not able to talk her. i am very upset and all this is going on from 4 years. i cant live without her. i want she be mine and she talk to me and share each and everything with me. how to console her now? because she is very rigid in nature and that guy has put black curtain in front of her eyes against me and she dint met me so she doesn't know what situation i am going thru. i am feeling very depressed. i just want her back forever. i haave no life without her. what i should do... Even if I tried messaging her from some sms sites and told everything still there is no rxn from her and I am still blocked from her side. She is not even reacting to anything. What to do? I can only message her , no othet way. What to do?

Dear GABU I'm sorry to hear that you are going through such a hard time and that your heart is broken. It seems to me like you are fighting an impossible fight right now. If she blocks you and won't answer you, I don't think you'll achieve anything besides torturing yourself if you continue. Maybe play a little hard to get? Leave her alone for while and wait to see if she opens up to you again. I know that this is difficult when all you want is to be with her - but I think you may be doing more damage by keep trying. It may just push her further away. Heart break is tough and it's always good to have someone to talk to. Perhaps you have friends or family or another person who you can talk to. Things will get better at some point!!