Am I being unreasonable (do distance relationships work)

my boyfriend a d i live 190 miles apart, he was my first love, and we have recently got back together 7 months now, he never goes out always has his kids on a weekend, he is a devoted dad. He broke up from work xmas and went out straight from work with some of his work mates which i talked him into going, this day was also my birthday, although he wished me happy birthday via my facebook wall just after midnight, and got my usual mornin text, that was it till i txt him at 9.30 on the night,for him to tell me he was very pissed, which is ok, then heard nothin off him till 1.30pm the next daywhen i called him cause he wasnt answering my txts. decided not to make a fuss he couldnt be arsed on my birthday, not longer after this night his facebook wall changed to no one bieng able to post anything on his wall. I asked him y i couldnt post anythu-ing he said he would have a look and didnt know why, then he txt me saying try now which i did only to find his wall still not accesable, then he said he liked it that way and that his mate had took a load off photos that day and night and he looked a state and did'nt want them being put on facebook. Straight away i get suspicious and accuse him of going off with someone, he denied it swearing on his kids lifes. Still not happy the next day i txt and asked y he pretended it was a facebook problem when after he said he had changed it himself, then he told me it was cause a friend from years ago who lives in my area(where he did b4 he moved south) had posted a photo of him with a poem and he told her not to do it again cause it would hurt my feelings, he saaid she asked if i was the jealous type(which normally im not) so he decided to block his wall. His ex wifee cheated on him and he is always going on about deceit, how he hates people lying, he has told me he loves me and wants us to be happy, but y cant he see how hurt i am that he actually changed his story several times and that he is being decietful. am i in the wrong here for feeling like his betrayed me, or am i being silly as he would put it, someone please help, im going out my mind

You are not being silly. The reason why he probably doesn't see his deceit the way you do is because 1) He's doing it, 2) He thinks he has a good reason for doing it, or 3) He is hiding something (something else is going on that you have no clue about) and doesn't want you to ask a lot of questions (which, of course, means you should ask him as many questions as necessary in order to find out what is going on.). You can tell him you know he is hiding something and he might as well tell you what is really going on. Also say that you don't appreciate his deceit since he would not want you to hide things from him. Distance relationships can work if both people within the relationship are committed to making them work. The more communication there is between you two, the better. If he does anything else that seems suspicious, try to get to the bottom of it. TILES