Don't know what to do

I'm a 32 year old female, I've been in love with a man for the past 17 years and eventually we are together for 3 years now. We had lots of fights in the past that just seems to get worse. It seems like nothing I do, say or try is never good enough for him. I'm really stuck between a rock and a hard place, I don't want to loose him as he is the only man I've ever felt about the way I do. I would really give my life for him. He says he loves me every day, but it's a bit hard to believe when he treats me the way he does. I am struggling with depression myself and he's not making it any easier. I think I might be obsessed with him,how do I get over that? Please I need help!!!!

me also having somehow same problem,plz suggest me something.....

in the past week i've been giving him his own medicine. i don't initiate conversations, i don't give attention until he does and i've adapted a sort of "i dont care" attitude and things have changed quite a bit. i think we need to show them less love and affection and wait for them to feel neglected. it's hard at first but you'll get used to it! good luck and plse let me know how it goes!

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