I don't know what to do

Hello!Sorry,if I will write with mistakes,becouse I am from Latvia and I live here in England just 2 years. My problem is,I am merried 2 years.From begining of merriege everything was be nice,but now more then 5 month our merrige is going down. We has money problems and that's way we a lot fight...Next thing about we fight is that I don't feel loved and special for him,becouse he don't try do something special for me for all this 2 years.Everytime when I have chance I try do some little special things for him,that he see that I love he...And now last cople mounth start be domestic violance what comes just only from he's side and he says so harrible things to me like,(I don't love you,I look at you just like you are my problem,I feel bearresing becouse I have wife like you becouse before me you have other men...)..And more harrible things... Please help me,I don't know what to do...

Aiga, you can't 'ask' for respect. You must 'demand' it. Value yourself. Do not let yourself be treated like this. There is a saying: "We teach people to treat us the way they treat us". In other words: You are teaching him that it's OK to treat you badly. But it's not. This man has problems and will not change without help.

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