Timewasters

I've been on dating site for awhile now talking to guys. You find a guy that you like and you attempt to meet him, 1 little thing doesn't sit right with them and they hit you with the "sorry I don't think this is going to work". It's happened to me many times now and I'm getting sick of my feelings being hurt and being let down. A guy turned me down because he didn't feel comfortable with me making the effort of traveling 30 minutes for a quick coffee. How do I avoid this?

What are you saying to these guys at this dating site? May be you need to change your approach. Keep trying, don't give up hope. That special someone really is out there.

Are you asking for advice on how to play it cooler?