Why can I not give him oral?

Ive been seeing a guy for a few months now n its been brilliant! The sex is amazing apart from one thing,i can't give him oral. ive never had a problem wit it before but its so different this time. he really pushes me down and as his quite big he makes me gag. when i try to pull away he wont let me and then gets stroppy when i moan at him. I have never had a problem before but he is blambing me.I dread it when he asks me to go down on him, wot should i do?

Hi Sally_08. It sounds like your fella is being rather unreasonable here. Explain to him that as he is such a big boy, (flattery never does any harm)that you'd appreciate him noy pushing you down with quite as much force. Also, make sure he returns the favour and if he's unwilling then maybe reconsider why you should be the only one giving!!

Thanks Virgil u hav really taken it off my mind! its been buggin me 4 months believin im useless. thanks

What i would consider, is telling your partner that he will enjoy you giving him head more, if he lets you take control of the situation, and letting you go at your own pace. You could also use your hands between breaths as well if he wants constant attention!

Have you tried not actually sucking and instead licking and tesing with your tongue? - then you dont have to worry about being pushed down and gagging. If you do this and use your hands to stimulate him at the same time I can assure you that he will enjoy this - my partner does!!

I just adore giving my gal oral and adore her returning the favour . I have NEVER held her head down EVER ! What a bad thing to do . In return i have got a girl for the first time who " Goes all the way " . I have to say that makes me feel like a king . !! Dont EVER be bullied gal xx

wish more men were like you i think im in a bad relationship and need to talk

whats wrong with your relationship girl? im unsure about mine to- fancy a chat?