I am chatting and flirting with men online

I ask my husband to have sex today. We haven'the had any relations in 2 years. I am feeling rejected and even though I am chatting online and partaking in sex talk, I want a physical relation. I am 12 years younger and need some attention. Husband always talks like he wants sex but usually says not today.

LITTLESNIT going outside the marriage is never a good idea. Have you talked to your husband about this? Sometimes just hearing about your intentions is enough to get him on the ball. If you're not satisfied with you marriage or relationship then divorce.

Agree with SCOPES. If you're not fulfilled, why are you staying?? It's not fair to either of you to step outside the marriage without having a difficult conversation with your spouse first. Sometimes couples agree to "renegotiate terms", sometimes it's time to move one, sometimes things improve. But to look for satisfaction outside of the marriage first is asking for a whole heap of trouble that can easily be avoided. Few things hurt more than learning someone you trusted has betrayed you. Please sit down and have that conversation with your husband, and be honest. Then, whatever happens, you'll both be in a better position to repair the current relationship, or get free to move on separately.