Relationship problems

Hi I'm having marriage problems I feel we are lacking communication location we can't talk to eachother

Marriage counseling might be a start.

(SHYLASAINT1, please could you go into detail and tell us EXACTLY what the problems you're both experiencing are, so that Scopes or anyone else can give you an equally more involved answer? Thanks.)

I felt so unattractive for years haven't been kissed you know like your desired in two recently we have been talking to a friend on line I was hoping you know play flirting would spice it up but my friend said he's writing to me so I asked her to send to me and yes they both were flirting like he was telling her he wanted to do this and that and It's the sweet way he talked to her like what's your dreams your smile makes my world a happier place those hurt worse then the you get me hard talk any advice would be great I was wrong letting him flirt but he knew I didn't want him doing it in private we have been together 23 years

Before I begin, Soulmate did you read my question from the other thread about trolling?

Something about flirting is mentioned here. Are we talking about an open marriage? I've read about couples who try to spice up their sex lives and relationships by bringing in a third party. Without setting out strict ground rules and boundaries a marriage can fall into disaster this is what they say. I personally don't recommend it and would probably suggest counciling. Soulmate?

No not open marriage he jokes and play flirts and I said to flirt with her but just on phone she doesn't live here but he took it a step further so her and I decided to see how far he would go well he went far and you know what the sex talk didn't bother me as much as the nice things like your smile makes my world a happy place, you have the sexiest legs I have ever seen, what's your dreams in life I never get to here that

Yes, Scopes, I did. Didn't you look to see my response? If you meant 'over to you, SM'?...Can't, sorry (sorry-sorry-sorry!) - [all together now] - haven't got time! :-( I need a secretary. Or to do a Reggie Perrin, LOL. (Sorry for the wee interruption, ShyLASaint1, please carry on.)

Believe it or not tech support helped me resolve this annoying problem yay!!! Anyway how do you know if someone is trolling? Do you know what that is? SHYLASAINT 1 sometimes even phone calls from a far can lead to other things. Especially when you're not present. I don't know who prompted this but who ever did may have opened Pandora's box. This may also develop trust issues. Have a talk with your husband about this find out what his intentions are ask him where he wants to go with this