My wife left me for a black guy!

my wife left me for a black guy. Nothing against black ,just an ego thing. She left for a year then he asked her to move out, she came home. yea I know, but it was 20yrs of marrage. Now together again for a yr. now and what do I find but her in bed with pc watching porn (wife's that went black) Note she left me because she said that she never for got him before we got married she was with him but wanted a white baby!!! so she had to go back to see if she still loved him. ok then of coarse that's a short version. How am I to fill about that? does it matter, i've wished to show her what it fills like and the only thing I come up with, might back fire. I,m not guy but if I let her catch me on a guy site would she fill the same as I do?

Ethnic background or race doesn't matter cheating is cheating. Sounds like a midlife crisis problem if you want to stay with her talk to her about marriage counseling. And remember communication is very important in a marriage

I agree with Scopes, cheating is cheating. You haven't told us enough to understand her completely but her assertion that she had to go back to see if she still loved him doesn't fly. I know that you can't control what turns you on and for many the forbidden and the taboo is important. Maybe that is true for her. As far as porn watching, I wouldn't put much stock in the kind she watches. The most popular porn for women is male-male but that isn't really what they want in reality.