My relationship

i am facing a very serious problem now. i am a final yr engineering student girl and i have affair with one of my engineering clg classmate. our relation is more than 3.5 years..though there happened several quarrels many times due to his or my short temperment...but both we are deeply committed in this relation...can't imagine to stay without each other. Four months ago..in our college campussing...i have got a job...but he did not get any job..though he is an outstanding student and better than me...after this incident...first he querrelled with me...but then he felt sorry...but he was going to change.....basically he is quite introvert and likes to spend in his room with books...but after this...he started to spend his time with his some loafer type frnds...dnt want to study much....if i tell him to study..he misbehaves with me.....now just 1 week ago..i came to know ...he used to flirt with one of his student by messaging the girl flirty talk...and totally hiding to me....he offered the girl to go for a movie...and also.....he told that girl that he was single....whenever i discovered it.....i thought i will be mad.....i broke up...but he is completely devastated..and not want to break up..he is just saying "it is joking...as i will become angry....as i am overpossessive...he hided to me"...he is very much frustrated now due to all these...job...this topic..and as i have told his mom about this girl...what should i do?? i will return to him or will brk up?? please suggest me...i am very much tensed.

hi chinkicse,if you had previous trouble with this person,but think that this time it was worth writing to this forum for help,you yourself already think it is different from the other times.So I would suggest you put yourself first and anythign else second or thereafter.You are the most important person on the planet for you.If you don't respect yourself first,how will others?Take a step back,look at the situation and be honest about what you experience/see.Try to see what others that are not in your relationship(the people around you)see. If you like what you see try this: http://bit.ly/lqgmWp I hope this helps.It did for me.

hello how are you doing?i really understand what you are going through and i feel your pain..i was in almost thesame problem as yours also...it was so tough and i was emotionally disturbed and all that..i tried all means but nothing worked..until someone told me about a spiritualist who helped me out... i didnt believe my eyes..within 7 days, everything came back to normal... you can email the spiritualist on spellsforbetterlife at yahoo dot com...DONT GIVE UP...!!

Hey,ur boyfrnd is jst too much mentaly affectd by d fact that he didnt got a job nd u did.he is jst lost nd influenced by bad frndship. Nd that girl issue its normal,he loves u thats sure but its jst a boring feeling that made him do so.the thing is he admits its his mistake.he could easily hav broke up wid u and move on with another girl.if u love him giv him another chance.nd try to bring some variation in relationshp.some fault is on your part too,do something so that he is tied to you...good luck

if you really love him..... this shold come in handy.. i am a man of honour,i wold never cheat on my wife,but why would she just make accusations and file for a divorce,didnt know what to do,i begged(not being a pu**y.lol.)because of the love we shared..i failed at getting her back..weeks later,i saw a testimony on a blog,it was about priestessmiriam,how she helped the fellow get his wife back,i contacted her,we talked,she gave me instructions,prayer and bill included..lol..i did as i was told 5days later she was back home..in love all over again..you can contact me damonhillband on g mail maybe contact her priesstessmiriam, add G mail to that..goodluck,god bless you