What do I do

Hi there, Well I have a problem not sure what to do. 3 Months ago I let someone who has having problems with his family stop over as he had no where to go. Things moved very fast and he is still here. Here is the problem he has had a very trouble past (drugs etc) and since he has been here these have all stopped but he is very emotionally stunted and does not share what he feels, he keeps telling me that he loves me and wants to marry me, but wont tell me what he is doing or where he is going, if you ask him a question he just loses he temper and says he is leaving, we have nothing in common really he does not work, he sleeps most of the day and plays on the xbox most nights he just wants sex constantly!!! I really do like him and so does my 12 year old son but I just dont know what to do should i let him go? I was in a relationship for 14 years before this and it ended badly am I just scared it will happen again?

Oh dear. Not sure how to advise you. I was in a similar position. My son was 18. Eventually I had to force the man out of my house. My son is a few years older now but I regret how I behaved with this man in front of my son (it went on for 2years) You must find a way to make him leave for your son's sake. I know its hard its lonliness and desperation that has got you into this situation. Good luck

you let him moved into your house with your son?=D then is he your friend? Do you love him?=D if you do and he also tells you too. Ask him if he really really loves you and your son, then ask him that if he really wants to marry you tell him to show the guy who is responsible to handle a family and not being selfish. Let go of your past, you will experience different trials in your life that you should not hold or based on your past. You may not know if it will happen again. You just need to think better now. [url= http://tinyurl.com/urmarriagesaved ]Marriage Savior System[/url]