Confused?

Im not sure what i wont. Im only young (19) but i've never relly had a serious boyfriend! Recently al my friends (who most are in serious relationships at the moment) keep on saying i need to grow up and get a boyfriend my mum even says it! But i dont really wont one i love going out clubbing and meeting guys and hooking up with and if im honest just really goin out for the sex i know im going to get that night. Everyone says sex is better with somone who your going out with. I think its just boing im the kind of lustful type. I just wont fast meaningless sex. But know one seems to understand that. what should i do should i carry on with the life i've got or should i get a boyfriend and see what thats like? Luv Princess me! xxxx

Hi, Im 18 and i have a serious relation for 2 years now. I used to go out clubbing just to meet new blokes and end up having sex with them but to be honest with you everyday i woke up with different people i feel disgusted to myself and feel dirty. Mind you, you will get labelled for that kind of thins you are doing rigth now. True!sex is better when you know the person well specially when you like the person!its something different,,,kind of special and it make you feel important and no DIRTY. your 19 years old and you shouldnt do that kind of stuff anymore as your matture i used to do it when i was 15-16

Thanks for your advise. i have stoped going out so much now. and i have got a b/f. its fun, casual n good. Thanks

hiya hun i understand exactly wot u mean!!! im 23 and when i was your age everyone also had serious relationships and i felt soooooo pressured to be like everyone else that i started a serious relationship too!!--now 4 yrs on,me and my serious partner hav just split up as i have had an affair!!,its gr8 having sex with a boyfriend...but then it gets really boring!!so in the end u start looking for that fast meaningless sex again-im a really bad person to be giving advice but you just have to do whats right for you take care x