Sex and Intimacy Forum: Discuss Relationships, Sexual Health, and Personal Experiences

Hi everyone. I'm a man, and I'm currently battling a porn addiction. But it's a bit more complicated than that. I'm pretty sure I am asexual because I can't masturbate to sex, whether imagined or in a porn video. It does nothing for me. What does work is underwear, and recently I have fallen into the trap of ai porn which can give me exactly what I want. I also started ...

Let me begin by begging you not to judge. This is something I will probably never talk about with anyone besides this forum. Forewarning that this might be kind of gross to read, and it's probably worse than the title makes it seem because I wasn't quite 18 when I did this (yes I regret it) Hopefully I don't sound like a weirdo but here goes. When I was 16 and 17, I exhibited...

I'm don't know what to do here. I'm more confused than anything else to be honest. I'm an older woman, and as I've gotten older I've been prioritising my comfort more and more, and to that end I recently gave up my more "sexier" underwear in favour of womens boxers. The brand is called Oddballs, and if you google you'll see that they are quite colourful...

Ladies I need some advice. I will be honest.I'm 25 years old girl and I haven't had classic sex yet. I normally act as a sexy, confident, attractive woman who has many men around me and they want me so bad ,but none of those men or friends around me know that I haven't had proper sex yet.( because of one negative experience when I was a teenager) But other sexual acts yes. Every tim...

(Keep in mind there's a human behind this post. I will ignore trolls anyways : I'm saying this to remind people that there's no "vilain" to search for. The title may seem "harsh" but that's just the reality of things, it doesn't change how nice and empathetic I can be. Thanks.) I hate this situation. There's many things in my life that m...

Ok this is really hard to confess too. When i (f) masterbate i think of my step dad. I seem to really get off on it. I’m not attracted to him, he is very old now. But he has been in my life since I was very young, I’m in my 40s now. And no as far as I’m aware he has never touched me in any way so it’s not like trauma making me do this. I must be really messed up in the head i guess. I just...

Last night I had the hottest sex dream about an ex and I don’t know what this means for my current relationship. I saw my ex in passing yesterday he was walking to the gym- he didn’t see me. I guess that meant he was on my mind. I would like to state that for the record I haven’t had any contact with this ex since being with my current man and me and the ex never actually had sex- the dre...

Broke my 3 year celibacy today and I feel absolutely horrible and terrible about myself. I regret it very much. I very much dislike sex, and every time in my life I've felt obligated and pressured to do so. I do it and have done it because it's expected of me. I want to cry. I feel good about myself when I abstain. I feel at peace and connected to and with myself. I feel pure and a clea...

Hi, 50 years young music producer / IT developer here. Married for 15 years, family with a stepson 24 and our song 13. I am here to say out loud whats been bugging me lately a lot, and it's a sexual problem. I really like my wife and our marriage and I would like to stay with her until the end. She really makes me the man that I want to be. BUT. There is a big elephant in the room and tha...

Hi, looking for advice and or feedback from others with similar experience. I’ve been married to my husband for 14 years and whilst we are great friends, we’ve not had any intimacy for 12 of those. He’s just not interested and won’t discuss it. We do love each other but it feels just as friends now. I miss the sexual spark and the feelings related to that…to be honest we never had...

Thoughts? F (35 m (38) We've been together almost a year and are living together. Im a very sexual person and would love to do it everyday. I stay in shape, keep myself manicured etc. He said every other is really more his pace. We've had discussions 3x now because it's more like 3-5 days in-between and that's a long time for me! And if I initiate 9 out of 10 times I'm tu...

I’ve been diagnosed with hypersexuality, and basically it gets in the way of everyday life, I’m constantly thinking about it, and I want to be able to have conversations about sex with my boyfriend but I worry that he’ll be uncomfortable. How can I avoid making him view me differently from this?...

I am a female, and I am currently dating another female. Our relationship, overall, is good, until the idea of sex comes up. She has experience with both genders, I have literally none. The other day, we were going back and forth joking about what we'd do to each other and all that good stuff, but then she asked me if I was really being serious about everything I had said or not. Now, we'...

Aug 18th I had unprotected sex with a tinder hook up. Told her to get plan b she said she got it and took it. Then 6 or seven dats later she says it didn’t work and she’s pregnant and needs the money for an abortion. I give her the money. She tells me she’s done it. The next day after she asks me for money to buy food and pads as she needs them. I tell her sorry I’m broke. She says she doe...

I’m really struggling to be more dominant, I guess you could say, with my wife in the bedroom… We’ve been married since June and together for over 2 years now, and every aspect of our relationship/marriage is and always has been amazing. She’s my best friend and the love of my life all in one. She’s also the first person I have ever slept with, and I am perfectly happy with that. She...

About a year ago o found my partner obsessed with anal sex, watching it on porn sites discreetly. HE wanted me to try it and for the past 9 months or so I have, iv even tried anal toys etc but I still can't relax. The pain is agonising! And he belittles me saying I'm not a real women then and that there's no point in us being together if I can't pleasure his needs? ...

I cannot find anywhere on Google or web search this problem specifically, they had one close to it and the rest are to help the majority issue of not being able to achieve orgasm. I have tried to ask other friends if anything similar has happened to them but I am too embarrassed to go into detail so we end up joking about how anyone would love my problem. This has happened off and on since...

3 years ago my partner became very very ill (life in danger, on a ventilator in intensive care type of ill.) It was very sudden and a horrific time. Since then he has made some recovery (he will never be back to how he was, but is loads better then he was 3 years ago.) We haven’t had any kind of sexual relationship since he became ill, literally nothing. Before he was ill we had a very a...

So I just turned 27 and am still a virgin. I haven't even kissed anyone before. Due to social anxiety I've never put myself out there enough to get close to developing a relationship with someone. Recently I started trying to date through causual meetings and dating apps. The one thing that keeps going through my mind is that sex will be inevitable and I feel like I won't be ready b...

So...it may be a bit unbelievable, but here goes... I've been married for a long time--as in 42 years. I have two children, both conceived within 3 years of marriage. Sexual contact dwindled down--after a time--to absolutely nothing. My sex drive also diminished...and I simply went with it. Fast forward to 16 months ago. I went to the hospital got an MRI, and a benign tumor was ...

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm looking for honest feedback and whatever advice anyone may have. I'm a 53yo lady that's finalizing a divorce after a 30 year marriage. We've been separated for 5 years and I'm relieved to be done with it officially, very soon. We've both had other relationships and there are no lingering feelings or unresolv...

Well since this is a sex sub, so I ought to ask this here. I have found myself in a very grey area. I need to get this off my chest, as I can't seem to get pass this. I need reassurance/validation on this please. I don't know if this is me fell for my husband seduction, or he was somewhat forceful. Sorry for English is my third language. I'm from Shanghai. Me and my husb...

Hi dear people! I need some help/advice please! So after 5 years of not dating and trying to heal from a past relationship and heartbreak after loosing some very close family members i signed up on Bumble and a day later found a guy that i connected with. I really just swiped right 4 times, i was playing it very safe. We started chatting right away and we did so for 2 and a half months. ...

Brace yourselves, this is gonna be a really long one. So usually on Saturday evenings, I (26M) visit this small dog park right next to my apartment. About 2 months ago, I was playing catch with my dog sitting on the park bench and this girl (22F), lets call her Emily, is also sitting on one of the benches and she’s crying. I could see that she was upset so I didn’t disturb her. After a while s...

I have an issue that I'm struggling with that I'm too embarrassed to see a doctor about. I've been in a fully committed relationship for the past year with a great guy. Since the start, everything between us has been great. Dreamlike really. The only issue we've had is sex. He isn't my first. In fact, I've been with plenty of guys, as a top and bottom and I'v...

So me and my husband have been together 16 years 4 kids who are all now starting to grow up and do there own thing. So now we are left with each other and although we get on amazingly well our sex life has taken a hit. We are both self conscious especially me (stretch marks and sagging bits) I would like ideas on how you have spiced things up or even how you've over come body image as I know ...

Husband has ED since his heart attack 3 years ago. Short story is that due to my frustration he told me to find a boyfriend. found that a bit insulting, but after 2 years of no sex and quite by accident I found one, a perfect FWB. Now I am sort of upset that my husband has displayed absolutely no jealousy. I know that it would bother me, and for the majority of marriage he constantly pester...

I'm separated, having been reduced to a non-working man last year. My partner found herself another man (a work colleague). Recently, I was in town, when I spotted a familiar face. She was in a cafe. My Maths teacher at school (I was 16 then, she was 35), Mrs Gordon. She was alone, so I approached. I told her who I was, and she asked if I was on my own. I accepted the invitation to sit down...

My husband and I have been married for quite a few years and things lately have gotten a little stale; we both work a lot and there doesn't seem to be a lot of passion left between us. I am looking for something we can do together to get us back to where we used to be. I was thinking of couples counseling but I don't know that it is too serious. We talked about having someone join us but...

Hello all. So, I got married and had kids way too young, just out of high school, with someone who turned out to be really emotionally abusive to myself and my children until we escaped that situation. I've been trapped in some nowhere town with no family or friends I moved to shortly after that marriage, where the general culture here is nothing like me, and eventually I started working fo...

I am 18 and I cant get a girlfriend my age as I am not that good looking. One of my neighbours is a retired, really nice lady aged 67, who I do shopping for and then have a chat and a cuppa afterwards. One day I told her about the problems I was having getting a girl my age, and she asked whether I was a virgin. I said I was, and she said "I would have you anytime". I laughed it off a...

you don't know any because going on dating sites for sex is dangerous....

So I am a young 25 year old married man and I have been with my wife for a couple years (prior to marriage). Our sex life is great, when it's active. There are occasional "dry periods" where my wife is not as sexually engaged as she normally is. What is my responsibility here? Should I be working harder on sexual appeal and seduction or do I let her come to me when she is ready? ...

I met my husband in 2013 on a dating site. We clicked immediately as we had the same likes/hobbies. I moved in with him 6 months later and then the sex stopped. We have not had sex for 6 years now. I've tried but no response from him. He doesn't bathe or shower. He hasn't washed for 2 years ! I have asked him too but he says no every time. Please advise me ! I want to leave him bu...

In December my boyfriend face timed me wearing a french maid's outfit I was shocked and surprised, he was made up,in stockings and suspenders and wig, he then masturbated, I had no idea!when we had sex he was in full drag and he has face timed me several times since in drag! I've tried telling him that I prefer him out of drag and he always says he's going to throw the stuff away an...

I am grown up so no issues there. However I was shocked to learn that there are eleven pornographic images in a gallery on a porn site of my own mother. I was even more shocked to learn that the images are not owned by my Mother but the site does have consent from her to display them, and therefore I could not have them removed even though I tried. However my Mother is absolutely mortified that ...

I've always noted how in adult videos, it's better to be loud. When I do it, I can't seem to make noise except for my occasionally shaking breath, you know, yeah. You get that. I sometimes wonder if my partner would feel down because of this or would be turned off. I mean I feel good, but I just don't moan. What do you think, should I practice moaning now?? But I feel like...

Ok. I have a coworker who is in a sense my boss and I am extremely attracted to him. Many girls are, he is gorgeous and muscular, and somehow he doesn’t seem to realize the power he holds over women bc he is shy and raised in a religious home. I’ve tried the trick of imagining him doing disgusting human things to get over his sex appeal, like him pooping/smelly farts/stinky feet or somethi...

A few months back, I went to a small party with a few of my 'friends' and their friends. I got really drunk and I ended up taking drugs, which was the first time I'd ever taken drugs. I was ruined, I cant remember any of the night, I slightly remember because put to bed by my friend but barely. In the morning my friend woke me up and said she can't believe that she can'...

So I’ve been friends with my best friend since 2015. We met in Australia and became close over a short period of time. I have since moved back to my home town (in a different country) and we still keep in regular contact. He and I never had anything more than platonic friendship. When I lived in Australia it was brought to my attention that he had fallen in love with me. I was the first girl he ...

I wasn't sure how many man in here, I want to know if a man used to hire hooker monthly, after marriage will he change? He promised he will, but I thinking after 10 years down the road in marriage, he may do it again and then the girl will be too old to date another one. However, my girlfriends said most guys don't tell you but most of them did call hooker in their life or calling hooker...

I somewhat recently had to confess to my husband that I have been sexually assaulted in the past. We’ve been together for more than 5 years. Honestly, I never really planned on telling him. I had never told anyone. It doesn’t affect me anymore on a regular basis and if it does somehow pop into my mind I can usually get over it quickly. However, one night we were being intimate and he cover...

I have been married for 6 six years and together for 10 years. My wife simply refuses to make love to me, she consummated the marriage on the first night but ha simply refused to have intimate relations since. I am 62 she is 58. I masturbate to relieve the sexual feelings but she says that I am betraying her. I simply do not know what to do. Plaese help....

We’ve been married 10 years, friends long before that and nothing we rushed into. No wedding, just togetherness, and it was enough knowing we could have a wedding /some day/. There was a lot of passion and excitement for several years, but it’s been a struggle financially and emotionally. We both have emotional issues we are in therapy and taking medications for, mine manifesting in anxiety an...

I’ve been together with my fiancé for over 2 years now. We felt deeply in love right away after the first date and the first couple of months together were paradise.... and the sex was absolutely awesome! After about 5-6 months of relationship I kinda stopped feeling aroused (not only by him... just in general) I was like dead down there. However I loved him more every day. He would try to ...

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have lived together for the last 2 years. We met when we were 16 and he's the only person I've ever been with. He's my best friend in every way and I love the relationship we have. We are both happy (we've obviously had our ups and downs over the years) and we have a good sex life. I reckon he will be the guy I marry and have ...

Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, we don't live together and are isolating because of coronavirus. For my birthday this year boyfriend asked me what I would like. I advised that I wasn't sure, but suggested for him to make plans to take me out for a nice meal once we can meet again, or for him to buy me a gift voucher for a shop that I like. Boyfriend had jokingly sugg...

This is the most ridiculous situation I’ve ever been in but I need advice or any kind of input will be appreciated. Yesterday a used condom was in the bush out the front of my apartment, a lady pointed it out to me on her way out of the carpark as I was coming in so I figured I would dispose of it no worries. I went inside got a glove and paper towel and put it in the bin and tied the ...

Not sure if this belongs in the Sex category, but I talk a lot about sex and that’s what the issue has the worst affect on for me. He’s 29 and I’m 23. We’ve been together for 3 years and overall we have a pretty damn good relationship. He’s my best friend and we have a great chemistry together, and have always had great sex as well. We’re expecting a baby girl in January and I could...

I love my boyfriend. We have been together for three months now. So far, he has been my healthiest relationship. The only problem is that I’m super sexually frustrate. Every time we are having sex, he finishes in 3min literally, and also cannot have a second round. Sometimes we put music on just in case we get too “loud”, and he finished before the first song is over. Now, I feel doomed. I...

So my ex and I broke up ages ago and I matched with his friend on tinder. Then I readied back on Snapchat and he never really spoke to me on it so I didn’t think much of it. But one night I was at a party and he was swiping up on my story and the next day I seen we had a conversation and I didn’t think anything of it lol. But then one night he text me asking did I want to go for a drive with h...

I’ve been with my boyfriend since we were 12, it sounds stupid I know. Almost six years later we’re still together. Long story short, I have PTSD regarded an incident that happened four years ago with my mum’s ex-partner, an incident when he “sleptwalked” into my room, knelt down beside my bed and started to run his fingers up and down my leg and over my body when I was asleep. I believe...

I am 39 years old, single and live alone. A couple of months ago, new neighbors moved in on my street, a few houses down, and I became friendly with them. It's a couple around my age and their 14 year old daughter. For whatever reason, their daughter has taken quite the liking to me. It started with her being giggly and making eyes at me when we mt on the street or at the mailbox, for exam...

My boyfriend is 43- I am 28.. we have been dating for about 3years. Awhile ago now all of a sudden he lost all sexual attraction toward me.. Well what I feel has happened, even though he assumes me he has not. So we had a very active sex life to begin with.. Now it is a rare act.. when we do it is crapy morning sex and very vanilla.. nothing exciting. I have tried everything to figure ou...

There's 14 years between myself and my partner of 3 years we have a beautiful 2 year old boy together and don't get me wrong our sex life is passionate and amazing but he is very traditional make love. I have always been adventurous and up for anything new and exciting. I changed and calmed myself down for him but I'm starting to get frustrated as everytime I try to try somthing new...

Oh god. I can't believe I'm posting this. I don't even know what to say. First and foremost I'm being entirely truthful here and I'm not trolling or anything. I cut myself last month (on the wrists) for sexual pleasure. My brain is really weird and that's actually something I enjoy. I'm not going to pretend to understand the psychology behind it because I don...

r/AskReddit Wonderful-Tomato-1811h Been seen but not being seen I posted this in another forum also to get feedback. I don't know that it is harming my life but can sometimes can consume my mind but here goes. First off, I don't know what to call this. Maybe it has a name, I don't know, but it is sort of specific but hard to describe but I will try because it has sort o...

I'm not ashamed to admit that I love to be dressed up as a sexy girl. I was at my house and having fun in my sexiest outfit and my outfits are on the slutty side. I'm in a tight skirt, size small thongs, black thigh high stockings garter belt and 6 inch stilleto heels. I had a real hair wig and I had my Mom's friend to come over for my make up. I have to be honest, I was born for th...

Actually, I think she has had a crush for longer than she admits. My wife and I have been married 4.5 years now and she recently told me that she thinks about this guy sometimes when we have sex or she plays with a toy. My wife is a few years younger than I am. We have a active and I think good sex life aside from the recent admission that she thinks of this guy. I'm sorry if this is rambling...

So me and my guy have been in a serious relationship for 5 going on 6 years. At first our sex life was great but now its boring and dead. I would consider him a "lazy lover" I mean he gives me oral but for the most part our sex is basic, no passion, and I never get to orgasm because he always cums first and NEVER lets me get me. I cant tell you the last time he made me cum. Sometimes aft...

Happily married and have good sex 6 to 10 times a month. I have always been a very sexual person and my wife goes in spurts. There is no kinky exploration on her part besides sex. I am appreciative of that but always keep wanting to push our boundaries. I have been wondering if I keep trying or find some other woman in the same married sexual situation that would like to explore together. Love...

Hi everyone, I need some help with this girl as to if she is into me or not. For starter I grew up with this girl, our mothers were best friends, so we grew up together. I am 8 years her senior. It wasn't till 10 years ago that our roads split up, although we did kept in touch, it was sometimes once a week, sometimes once every month, but not everyday as it used to be. However I always was...

This is something I've been thinking about talking about for years but never took the steps to, but here goes. Long post time. My girlfriend was molested as a child. She blocked it from her memory and was a fully sexual person when we first got together at 19, and we had a healthy sex life for the first year and change of our relationship. We started having sex less when she started rememb...

About my "Unnatural desires", since i was a kid, i've always fantasized about...making love to my mom. There, i said it. It's really weird for me to talk about, i've never told a soul. Since i was a kid, i've loved being hugged by my mom, she's always just felt so warm. She's the most important person in my life, my rock. I accidentally saw my first pornogra...

Iv been with by boyfriend for 10 years now and we are still great, we are each others best friends and as corny as it sounds we really are. We used to have a great sex life and he used to be trying every second for something but lately.. Past couple of months he hasnt been trying. I'm not used to initiating sex as I usually don't need to and I enjoy knowing he wants me but I got fed up w...

Hi, I am a 70 year old white man, recently lost my wife of 45 years. My son has been diagnosed infertile. They have tried doner IVF but were unsuccessful twice. They always wanted children. My son suggested I make love to his wife to get her pregnant. I was shocked but also flattered to be asked. She is only 22, Iranian origin and very beautiful. Not been with a woman since my wife passed, I...

My partner and I have always struggled with intimacy, being intimate in ways other than sex and sexually. I am much younger than my partner and that is usually what he attributes this problem to. That is if he actually acknowledges that it is a problem. In the eyes of my husband intimacy is to be spontaneous, he is to take me when he feels the need to. Regardless of what I’m wearing or where we ...

Hello, I’ve been married for five months now and have known my husband for two years. He’s a great person but I’m beginning to have doubts and I can’t share this with anyone around as there’ll only be judging. So I need your help in order to rationalize things. I’m from Nigeria and my husband is French. We started trying for a baby last year but haven’t yet succeeded. Tests showed th...

When he looks at her naked and says do you want this,and gestures with no movement to his penis and she said duh. grab the lubricant and get him saturated and go to move closer and he gives her this weird look. how would you feel if your partner looks at you and said what are you doing when you're climbing on top of him to have sex?...

my husband and I have enjoyed threesomes now for quite some time, has anyone else done the same, if so some questions 1/ how did you first talk to each other about doing this or any other sexual thing involving other couples/single people 2/ did you have rules about with whom you should get in with 3/ being a wife, I have enjoyed the attention and the sax tremendously, have or did y...

so about 9 months ago my best friend was telling me about some people she went on a camp with. I thought one of the guys was pretty cute so I added his Snapchat. My best friend sees this boy as a brother figure (even though they aren’t blood related). I ended up talking with this boy a lot, which my best friend was aware of. However me and the boy decided to meet up behind my best friends back, ...

Hi We are a couple and i have a fantasy about my girlfriend being with another man she once talk to about while having sex and now i can't stop thinking about why am i so turned on about this fantasy ...

My partner and I have been together for 5 years now. From the beginning I really thought sex and affection was what held a relationship together. Well at least for me that's what keeps me close to my partners. He may be different and I respect that but as the years went I've learned many things to focus on all together instead of just sex and affection but he's changed so much too. ...

So we have been together for a while. The past few months we haven't had sex. He's saying its stress and what not but he used to say this before and it never affected him. He says he can't even get it up but i think he is lying to me. I few weeks ago he got hard and lied about it saying it was a morning wood or whatever. I found clothing this white stuff on it and he swore he d...

Okay so this is the situation. I fucked a escort (which was ugly as fuck but still went with it) with a condom about two months ago... and now I saw and recognized her while I was working (fast food restaurant)I'm not sure if she recognized me but i think she might of because I'm kind of good looking (not to brag) and well i'm kind of paranoid now so this is what I think. 1. She tr...

My and my partner have intercourse about 1 or 2 times a week but days aparts. This week we had sex on Monday and it went great. Last night he mentioned how aroused he was and we planned our intercourse today after work. After him giving me oral sex i proceed to give him some as well. I knew i was doing an excellent job but he kept getting hard then back on soft. I have no idea , i have a feeling h...

I'm mid 30s hes mid 40s. We started out as an affair. For reasons that I'm not going to go into. Now we are official and happy. Except... he rarely wants to have sex anymore. We o ly do it when he wants to. I try so hard constantly coming onto him in hope that maybe this time I will get him in the mood. We live with out parents so dont get much alone time together for now. So when we do ...

Me and my boyfriend have been together officially for a few months. Hes mid 40s I'm mid 30s. We dont live together yet and dont get time to ourselves. I'm constantly being pied. My self esteem is taking a battering. Help!...

I am very confused about something that happened recently in my relationship. I would appreciate any advice that any of you can give me. Thanks. So, I have been in a relationship on and off with my boyfriend for 4 years. Recently we had an argument as there have been issues for a while as we don’t spend a lot of time together (he works nights and we don’t live together) which doesn’t help....

so im in a relationship with a girl that im really into. weve been dating for six months or so. except last week she told me that she identifies as asexual. specifically, she is grossed out by the very idea of engaging in any kind of sexual activity. i thought we were just taking it really slow, but it seems like were never gonna reach the next step of our relationship. i asked her if i could slee...

I used to be a porn and masturbation addict. I am gay as well. I earlier had a streak of 16 days but then had a relapse. I am now on my longest streak of 25 days. I had a nightfall (or a wet dream) last night. I remember, I had the dream abt my friend and in the dream i was getting intimate with him. I am confused that does this count as a relapse? Do i need to reset my counter? ...

i just watched the film about queen i thought it was very good, i was wondering who is more talanted, Freddie mercury or chris martin, Coldplay or which one would i do th most? ...

I’ve been with my fiancé for 2 1/2 years and we’ve lived together for a year. We’re both in our early 50s. When we first started seeing each other, we had sex 2-3 times a week and we enjoyed experimenting. About a year after getting together, he told me I was his first. Since we’ve been living together the sex has gotten less and less frequent. We’ve discussed it and fought about it. He...

Hi I joined here because it seems like a good place to ask this. I just wanted some thoughts please and advice if I've done anything wrong. The other day I was at home doing not much and we have had trades men working on the walls inside the house for a few days because of some water problems we had To try to make a big story short, I'm sure I'm like most women and when I'...

My partner and I have been together almost 4 years and we have a great relationship. But I have always felt like the sex has been just OK, sometimes he doesn’t even turn me on anymore. I’ve tried dropping small hints here and there and I’ve never really liked the way he kisses and never been able to tell him. For the past couple of years I have been thinking about the guy I was sleeping ...

-When I was 14 in 2008, bet my buddy that I could masturbate in class with nobody noticing, we thought it was hilarious (obviously extremely stupid looking back, never did anything like that before or after), I tried and couldn't really do it then stopped. -We didn't think it was a big deal, we were joking about it a year later, and an upperclassman overheard us. -He started spre...

So the background of this story is that basically, me and my partner found a video on the internet of her making out with someone without her knowledge from before our relationship. The video goes for about half a minute and they didn't notice anyone filming because they were extremely drunk at the time. She remembered that on the same night, they had sex in the same place of filming. She...

Sorry for my bad english! So, I'm a 21 years old girl, and at a party, a random guy found me alone in the backyard toilet, he pushed me down, and stuck his tongue into my navel, licked it, and slapped few times my underbelly, grabbed the fat on my belly, so that was a classic female/male physical strength situation, and this is really annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...

Been married 22 years. I am 48 he is 54. I thought sex was fine between us but the other night my husband said it was ok. he said he was talking about himself and it wasn't me. he had his prostrate taken out 2 years ago and as to use a pump which takes about 10 minutes for him to use. I have never really adventurous in the bedroom but I always made sure he got his pleasure even if I wasn'...

Explicit!! I need external advice or input, are you ready for a lot of reading? My wife and i are married for just over 3 years with a beautiful daughter just short of that. I am almost 40 and she almost 30 years of age, neither of us have ever been players and only interested in long term relationships. We got married post-expecting witch is to this day my 2 greatest accomplishments, be...

Been with hubby 12 yrs, have 2 kids and most of the time we are great. We have settled into new routines because he got a new job 6 months ago and we both work different shifts ( we have since before my kids). He convinced me to have an open relationship before, about 7 years ago. Seeing as I was the only person he had sex with, I thought it would be ok to let him explore. We laid down rules, an...

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I have been married for 3 years. My husband works out of state 5-6 days a week. I stay home. My husband has chronic shoulder pain, and deals with pain everyday. His Dr has advised that his last option is shoulder surgery, which he refuses to have done. Lately my husband is suffering from ED, and has told me pills like Viagra can cause blindness so he wont take them. We havent had sex in 6 months...

I wrongly place a high importance on how pretty a woman's feet and toes are, especially if the toenails are nicely shaped and are grown a bit longer than the toes. My girlfriend of 18months has pretty feet but cuts her toenails so short, like 3mm shorter than the toe itself, I just can't look at her toes without feeling turned off to the point of feeling sick so have to ignore them. ...

hey i'm almost 19yo and i have a muslim mom today she walked in my room with an angry expression and told me that she found condoms in my drawer so i got a little confused and didn't know what to answer i just said that i didn't want to talk about that with her she was clearly frisking my stuff and i didn't like that i think that some things are just personal and that p...

Hello! I`ve been married for year now and something is really wrong. After we got married, something changed in our relationship and especially in our sex life. I mean when i see good looking guy or have dreams about them, i know i want sex and it`s not like i don`t want it at all. But when my husband touches me or wants sex, i`m pushing him away. I can`t imagine me having sex with him anymore...

I have been married to my true love for 20 years and together 30. I love this man with all my heart and I don't want to loose him. After being married for a few years we got into the swinger's lifestyle. It took me a bit to be OK with it because I didn't understand why my husband said he wanted to watch me with other men. We have been swinger's for about 10 years or so now and ...

I am new here and hope I can find help. I have been married for over 30 yrs. our love life over the past almost 18 yrs has been rather poor. I now understand this is because my husband has chossen porn over me and our life together. I am not over weight and I work out, people have told me I am very pretty or beautiful, I feel ugly and fat as my husband no longer has sex with me. We have tal...

Hello, I've been looking for somewhere to discuss my problems and found this site today. Unfortunately I wrote my life story and then it didn't publish, so I'll start again and be brief. I am a 35, happily married woman, two children. Normal family life except that before getting married I was a bit wild and liked to be used. It left me with a craving that returns occasionally, t...

oh man so everyone please hold your judgements because i know that not everyone would be as hopeful for love as i am but...heres the back story. weve been dating for 3 years, 1 year was amazing! Best boyfriend ever. We did everything right. He was a perfect gentleman. He still opens my door to this day in fact. But the 2 following years were hell. Verbally abusive and physically but we were bo...