I feel like I have to use porn because I have a very specific fetish

Hi everyone. I'm a man, and I'm currently battling a porn addiction. But it's a bit more complicated than that. I'm pretty sure I am asexual because I can't masturbate to sex, whether imagined or in a porn video. It does nothing for me. What does work is underwear, and recently I have fallen into the trap of ai porn which can give me exactly what I want. I also started looking at videos I found online of japanese women in public toilets or changing rooms, because the women in those videos are more likely to be wearing the underwear I like. I am also obsessed with women wearing boxers. I feel compelled to interact with this kind of stuff because it's the only thing that works for me. I struggle to use my imagination because my fetish is so specific.

I don't think there's anything wrong with using porn or having specific fetishes. And honestly, this sounds like a pretty tame one. It is only a problem if like porn is illegal where you live, and you could be fined or jailed or killed for viewing it, or something awful like that. Or if watching the porn becomes this major obsession that takes over your life. I doubt you're asexual. It sounds like you like women. Particularly women in underwear or boxers, however. You know, sometimes when I watch porn, what can kind of take me out of it is realizing that the women in the videos are banging other dudes, and not me. So sometimes I do prefer to just see women doing their own thing. But another really good point is that sometimes we as a society have this obsession with nudity, and sex organs... And sometimes we overlook simple things like a woman with a pretty face, or delicate features, or that sort of classical beauty you'd get from a lady in a really nice dress or skirt, or just their clothes in general. It's hard not to see old footage and stills of actresses and models from yesteryear - any bygone era I guess, take your pick - and kind of feel dismay at what modern society dictates as attractive or sexy. Why do I need anyone to tell me what is attractive or sexy, anyway? I'm fully capable of forming my own opinions, no Mad Men advertisements or social movements necessary. But yeah, nothing wrong with appreciating women in their knickers. Hell, I...I like women in underwear, too. We can be fetish buddies, you and I, Dingus! : D

Balance, "I like women in underwear, too." Their cunning plan for world domination is working, then? :D PS: "I am also obsessed with women wearing boxers." :D If you get who I'm referring to, Balance - I feel a Match-Making coming on... :D (Give her picky husband a bit of competition, eh! HAHAHAHAHHA!)

Lol, Soulmate. Yeah, I guess there are some potential matches floating around here on our forums, oblivious to each other's existence. But we kid, Dingus.