Mistrust of new boyfriend

i have been dating a guy for 4 months. we met through a dear friend of mine that passed away. we live in separate states. he has been here and i have been there. we have had good times and some really bad times. he keeps in close touch with me and says he loves me and that he would never be with another woman. until now i never felt he has been with another woman. but now i get this feeling deep in my gut that he is. i don't know what to do. my instints have always been right.

I think you should see him andtalk to him. It helped me, and check for any signs of wavering or uncertainty, because if you know him enough, you'll be able to read through him. good luck.

Hmm...I am currently in a long distance relationship myself, and as you know it is pretty tough especially when you hardly see that person.Im not sure what's your case, if your able to see that person from time to time or is it more of a see you once a year type deal?..Whatever it may be, just keep in mind that, in a long distance relationship, both sides have to commit to the relationship in order to last.Pray to God and tell him to show you what he wants for you in your life. Just remember that God never says NO, He says I have something better for you.God Bless I will be praying for you. :)