Relationships Forum: Advice on Love, Marriage, Friendships, and Family Issues

Husband came home in the afternoon and said, Can I ask you a favour. In the morning we had ignored each other because the day before we had been arguing over things and it all just made me upset and I started shouting. I was shouting loudly when we were having a walk and he slepted down stairs from me like he has done many times in the past. He didn’t make my breakfast or sandwiches which he us...

So I have a problem with our son being here. Our son is living with us after giving up his job when he went travelling for four months. He has been living here 3 months already and I’m fed up with it all. He works part time and getting some benefits. he is not paying us any rent at all so his washing is done. He is having hot showers each day, He is using the electric and gas and my husband sa...

So I have been with my husband for almost 14 years. Here Lately he been drinking himself stupid every single day and I feel like he is just in a downward spiral. I don't want to leave because Ive been sick for the past 5 yrs and he has been there for me. I know I might sounds a little ungrateful, but I'm not. I love him and just don't know if I stay by his side while he self-destruc...

A week ago I was taking a picture from my father's phone and accidentally deleted it. When I went to restore it from the recently deleted folder, it was filled with approx 20-30 pictures of completely naked women engaging in sexual acts. I was shocked and closed it instantly. I then later went back to it and saw that these were screenshots of videos on porn sites and they were for sure from h...

I know this behavior is not normal, but I cannot talk to my friend about it because it will destroy our friendship. Here is the story: She was widowed in her early 50's several years ago after husband lost his battle with cancer. She has one adult daughter who is married with a toddler and another baby on the way. In the years since her husband passed, she has grown more and more attach...

I've lived in my flat block for a number of years now and one of my neighbours caught my eye early on into living here and was instantly attracted to them. For my own reasons I never pursued anything and put this attraction to one side and maintained a causal neighbourly relationship and did my own thing. Over the past 6 months our sons have become really close friends and often play toge...

So there’s a guy I’ve been friends with for 4 years now. I never really saw him in a romantic light until a situation happened about 4 weeks ago. We were both at a party and at that point, all my other friends have gone home and it was only me and him left. I went up to him and he put his arm around my shoulder and we danced together with his cousins and his cousin’s partners. After like 30 ...

I separated from my husband 3 years ago after being together for 14 years and married for 9 of those, we have an 11 year old son. (We are not divorced) he has now told me he regrets his decision. In the run up to our split my husband suffered mental health problems and had a break down. I tried to be as supportive as possible but the same time I was desperately trying to rekindle the intimac...

Hi all, I recently separated from my co-parent after a long period of feeling emotionally erased and subtly controlled. It wasn’t an explosive or overtly abusive relationship — but over time, I found I was losing more and more of myself. I became isolated and emotionally brittle. Close friends began voicing concern about me and the relationship. The control wasn’t loud. It came through sh...

I reconnected with an old friend after years of not talking. We were super close as teens, but our friendship back then was immature and sometimes messy, like a lot of friendships are at that age. We’ve reconnected more than once over the years, and most recently, it felt like we had both grown and were in a better place. We were talking again, sending memes, having normal conversations. Then...

Hi, I'm 16 years old and I'm in a tough situation with my former friend group that I'm lost about. For some background, I was in a friend group with 3 other people. I'll refer to them as Thing 1, Thing 2, and Thing 3. Thing 1 and I have been friends for 12 years. Our moms have been friends for that long as well. Thing 1's mom is also abusive. She's broken Thing 1&#...

I’ve been on an emotional roller coaster this week and I feel like I’m losing my mind. I have discussed this with friends to a point but out of a massive fear of judgment here I am. So there are 3 people-S, D, and T. I’m S(32f) and I’ve been with D (33m) for 5.5 years. And I love him, I do but the one thing that could break us is money. D and I had a long conversation about it tonight ...

Hello all. I am looking to share my story, as I don't have many people to talk to and I am looking for some help.. So, I am 33 year old man and I have a best friend with benefits that is a 37 year old woman. We met each other before 2 years and immediately we had such a strong connection and everything felt so real. Our bond became so strong with every talk, text, meeting, with every hug...

I was dating this guy whom I met a few months ago. Everything was going great until I did not come see him one day and I think he ghosted me. Now I’m lost and confused and don’t know what’s to do. I really like him. I have called and texted him and I haven’t gotten a reply. What am I supposed to do?...

I'm looking for opinions as to an incident that occurred over the weekend and the aftermath and to question did I handle it incorrectly? On Saturday night myself and my husband were on a night out with our mutual friends a guy and a girl they aren't a couple although the guy likes her. Halfway through the night I witness our friends dancing and the guy go to grab her throat she pus...

I’ve been in a relationship with this man for eight years. We have three kids together and still are not married nor engaged. He cheated on me three times and has always messaged other women inappropriately. Didn’t matter that I was pregnant either. He drinks every single day and stays up till 5-7a.m. Recently he has said that he no longer has the desire to message other women, and it’s goin...

Long story.. As my marriage was ending I technically cheated on my abusive ex husband with a man I met far away in another city. This man was also married. We entered into an affair and fell deeply in love with each other. It was VERY intense and intimate. (I will spare the details. This was not a simple, casual or normal situation; if you read my whole story please assume this man is truly my sou...

Hey all! Im just gonna jump STRAIGHT in. I feel smothered… or even slightly constrained. I’m 21 but I’m being treated like a teen? I know they care about my safety but it gets to a point… So my family has these rules about my dating life that I gotta follow other then that I’m free to do whatever I wish with my life. Doesn’t sound too bad right? Well that’s also what I thought unt...

I’m looking for some honest feedback on my situation to understand if I’m being unreasonable or missing something. I’m happily married with two kids (7 and 10), and I love my wife deeply. I handle most of the laundry, weekly cleaning, cooking, and changing bed sheets, while we split grocery shopping and dropping off/picking up the kids fairly evenly, depending on our schedules. My wife takes...

Relationship issues. Feeling betrayed. Family back stabbing. Feels like I am on one side of the table. Whilst the rest are sitting on the other side supporting each other. I speak but I am not heard. I am present but I am not included. I'm a leper. Until they want or need something from me. I wish to turn the table on them. ...

So, I used to date this guy let's call Keeran and we broke up a couple weeks ago but we've still been in contact (ik bad but here we are). Whilst dating, he always said he was unable to kiss or really touch me in clubs bc it made him uncomfortable. Sucks but I have to respect that. However, the other night we were out and he had to pretend I wasn't who I actually was to some people,...

I have been married for almost 15 years now, and over time, I have become just generally unhappy. I have considered looking into separation and more, but I am scared of what comes next. I have abandonment issues that have led to a PTSD diagnosis and am terrified of being alone. I feel trapped with no clear path. I am hoping someone here can give me any advice on the topic. It is not fair to me to ...

Hello all! I'm a 25 years old male. Let me give you a quick summary of my past and then I'll talk about today. I was diagnosed with OCD when I was 12 or 13. I was afraid of going to hell and in order to deal with this uncertainty I asked people lots of questions, looked up religions that can give me the guarantee that I'll go to heaven or at least I'll be ok that nothing bad...

So the guy i am dating had a fling a 2 years ago. ( they met before we started dating) They met at our college and they worked in a study group together. Our mutual friend that was with them told me that he approached her a few times to ask for question about homework and study and then she invited him to be in their study group and he said yes. Apparently the study group lasted for about a week. ...

I'm an 18 year old girl who's never been in a real relationship before. I tried dating a guy when I was 16, but it didn't work out since we never really acknowledged each other irl and our conversations basically fizzled out. I'd like to call it an attraction I had that didn't work out. Anyways. I'd always had a crush on this guy I'd been friends with since I was...

Hey! This is my 1st post. Umm I'm a normal (mostly) 40 year old mum of 3. I have a partner. We've been together solidly now for 6 years (on and off for many years before that( but that's a whole another story. Basically since having our twins 5 years ago, we have hardly had sex. I mean when I say hardly ever, the last time was about 2 months ago. So yea, basically never. It'...

This guy and I dated during the summer, but we weren't getting along. So we stopped dating and were friends with benefits for a month. That ended in January because, again, we were not getting along. Recently, he and the guy had been texting. He told me he had a "spicy" dream about me. And I asked him if he wanted to have casual sex with me. He said, "That's a complicated ...

Hi! I work with people and have to be service minded. I'm married. I made the mistake in the past when asking my husband for advice on how to deal with flirtatous customers. He has a jealous streak which I feel goes away and it can be long periods of time or short periods. Something triggers it that has nothing to do with me. It makes me sad. To me he is sensitive and he reads all sorts of...

Hi. I'm eighteen, and my pops lives in another country than the one I'm in; he fled some years ago (when I was pretty little) because he didn't want to show up-to court. He was in a position of power and sexually assaulted many women. It's haunted me. We talk on the phone, and he visits once every few years. I feel - as a woman myself and someone moral - like I'm a tra...

I have just discovered that my husband of nearly 20 years (together 25+) is having an affair with a women he has been gaming with online. He doesn't know that I know. I am absolutely shattered and have no idea what to do next. My priority is to protect our 2 children. I have always been aware of how manipulative my husband can be, so really need help to know what I can do to protect m...

Me, 18F went through a breakup pretty recently about two months ago. The breakup was pretty messy and I really wanted to stay with him for a little while but eventually I got over him after finding out he moved on. (I'm not settling for that) And I've recently been talking to a new guy who is 19, he's very sweet and we both actually like the same games, music, interests ect. I'...

Where do I start.... Ex wife is a psycho & hates me, youngest child told her a pack of lies, which led her to come to our home & attack me.. eldest child lives with us & has done for nearly 2 years now. Eldest child is turning 18 soon. Ex wife now thinks she can organise a surprise 18th birthday for son that lives with us & expects us & my partners family to go! Partner hasn�...

I am a divorced 44F and my partner is 51M. I also have a daughter aged 7. We have been together for 6 years. He is a freelance designer. I am also self employed and an undergrad student as well. I work very hard to maintain a reasonable lifestyle for me and my child. He has always been "tight on cash". But he doesn't always actively seek out work as he says he values a "peac...

So I posted back in July. I wish I had listened. Shit happened. I will recap now. And I need help. I will go crazy................. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I want to share my story, hoping it will give me some clarity and peace of mind. I met someone...

TLDR: Friend joined our social circle 6 months ago. Things were great until a few weeks ago. Friends are now distant and cold toward her, but nobody will explain why. Relevant background (Names changed just in case and ages if that helps contextualize it.) I moved across the US 3 years ago for work. After a few months I joined a gaming group that was two married couples. Jason and Dani (M25...

I’ll try and keep this as short as I possibly can. But basically. I am married. 4 children. Been married 2 years. I started talking to someone online via a fake profile. This person I knew years ago. A lot of years ago when I was a teen. He cropped up showing interest so that’s when I made a fake profile. We spoke on and off. I never met him. Even though he asked to. I never did. It w...

Hi. I met someone one day off a gay dating site. A day after chatting, we arranged to meet 2 days later, but ended up meeting up a day later for a few hours, then they wanted to see me everyday, so went saw each other 12 days in a row. They stopped overnight here, about 4 /5 times. I stopped there once and net his mother/ sister, he's lived up here for 2 years, apparently escaped an abusiv...

Me (31, female) and my friend (30, female) had a fight over text messages. Background: I am sine a year and a half and especially currently in bad health. I get my work done and some of my household tasks, but after that, I’m usually exhausted due to severe pain and other symptoms like dizziness, brain fog, and concentration problems, which can even lead to panic attacks. On weekends, I mos...

Hi For the last 2 years, my husband’s sister and her husband have decided to not acknowledge me. I am unaware of any wrong doings or offences for this. We were never especially close family members but seemed to get along for the last 35 years. However, a campaign of terror started has started in the last 6 months, such as shouting vile language at me, driving past me extremely slowly and...

Hi all. What's brought me to this forum is the desire to seek 3rd party advice / opinions on my predicament. In my Immediate family there is my dad, sister, nephew and myself. I'm 33, sister is 44 and nephew 25. Over the last several years I've grown tired and angry at my sisters and nephews lifestyles. My sister is drama orientated, an alcoholic and general emotional mess a...

Hi all! I am not sure of these types of updates are allowed on here or not. I kind of lost track of the time and the last thread expired. @SOULMATE How's everything? So life update - I have since finally moved out of my hometown to another city for work. And then to another city again within the span of 5 months to pursue a part time course in science. I always wanted to go into scien...

Hey everyone. I'm brand new here so sorry if this is too long, but here goes. I've been wondering lately if my husbands best friend for decades has feelings for me. He is married too and has an adult daughter. He (best fiend) is a very reserved person and not touchy feely at all. My husband has shared with me he doesn't like hugs etc much but her does hug my husband. Well, after a f...

I'm having relationship issues with my long term partner. I've realised after 30+ years just how immensely different we are. I very much admired many of his attributes. Such as his intelligence and excellent writing. I believed he admired my imagination and strong opinions. I have always been a bit of a muso and romance movie buff. I use to walk around the house singing...

Hi Marked this under 'other' as really not sure what category to put it under and will try and keep it as short as possible. I recently met up with a woman I used to work with that I really liked ,after about 4 years. In the time in between we'd chat on WhatsApp but it was always me that initiated it and not her. Anyway we met a couple of weeks ago for coffee and spent a good...

For context, my recent partner of almost 5 years broke up with me back in the summer. This has been the second hardest thing I've dealt with the past year. He ended the relationship after we took a 1 month break that I offered as he came to me & told me he felt disconnected from me, wasn't sure what he needed & he needed some time to focus on himself. I will try to break it apart...

I don't know if this is the right thread as this is my first time posting, but my problem is about mine and my brother's relationship. We are currently very close, as we have many similar interests and hobbies, and work at the same place. We spend a lot of time together and have a mutual respect for each other. However, he is planning on moving 2-3 hours away for college next year, an...

I am a 18 y/o female and he is a 18 y/o male. we both met each-other through an online platform. We were already 18 when we met. We kinda clicked and it was fun. We had all sorts of discussions. But as I am not too much of a social person, I was sure that either one of us could stop speaking to each other anytime. As I know that people just drift away. But it didn't happen this time. We talke...

Hello all! On here looking for advice about a situation with boyfriend I've been having. So backstory: my boyfriend and I were in a relationship for until just ten days shy of making it a year. Both himself and I were never in a relationship of that length before in our lives before we met each other through a friend of his back in September of last year. The friend and I had met on a da...

Just had a short 3/4 month relationship come to an end and this one as you’ll see really hurts because of my history and lack of success in this area. I recently turned 41 and she’s 33, both Christians and we met online and even during our text conversations, I could feel such a spark and connection like I’ve not felt before. We’re in different cities so we knew this would be a long dis...

So my ex, L, and I were together for a long time, off and on. While we were together, she found out she didn’t have feelings for me and kept trying to break things off, but admittedly, I kept begging her to stay, until a month later when she left for good. I saw that she was dating someone else, and in my anger accused her of emotional cheating and that she had cheated on me while we were togeth...

I met with a friend yesterday and she told me about a new guy she is seeing. They met on a dating app and hit it off really quickly. He seems like a decent person, but made it quite clear to her that he will be going on an extensive trip overseas in January and doesn’t want to “leave a girlfriend back home.” (Basically, they will have to end/pause their relationship before he leaves so he ca...

I am in a "secret" relationship with a guy, is not official but at the same time it is, as we do not date any other people. I feel like i am having a double life and it is giving me anxiety, subcounciously i feel i am pushing away friends so they do not find out about it. This guy is very sweet and understanding with me, i feel loved and secure, we get along well and have chemistry in be...

My boyfriend and I have been together 2 1/2 year (we'd know each other longer before that too) and recently I've been feeling like I may have made the wrong decision in dating him. I would ask for a break or break or off but we've bought a house together and we have two dogs together and financially he supports us more. I could do it on my own but honestly the thought of leaving a...

Hi everyone so I am new here and I am going to do my best with staying on topic but my anxiety has me switching directions a lot. My main reason of posting here is because I am having a hard time in life with relationships, its not just one or a "wrong girl" situation, its def me and I would like to talk to like minded people and maybe try new methods, anyways so, My most recent relation...

I work at an animal shelter and it is my entire world, I’m so beyond passionate about it. I enjoy talking about it a lot and my family loves to hear about what I love doing. My boyfriend of 6 years does not show interest when I speak about my job or even when I speak about my own pets who are like my children. I have discussed this with him and he now pretends to care. He is so bad at hiding...

I have two problems I would like answering please. The first one is my husband who had come home from work and came up stairs to see me. He gave me a kiss and a few touches here and there. Ive told him I like affection and more hugs, kisses and touches and now he does it more than he used to. I am quite sensitive and wear my heart on my sleeve and after he went out of the room I had a little...

I'm 24 and he just recently turned 31. His birthday made a month since we've been entertaining eachother. I met him through a mutual, he came over to my apt and came over every night 4 days in a row, he wouldn't just wake up and immediately leave either he'll stay for a hour or 2 then leave. When we first met we both disclosed we had kids, and he is open about his situation wit...

My boyfriend almost used a racial slur related to Chinese people while we were discussing its inappropriateness. He was recalling a past comment and reading a screenshot where the slur was used (not by himself). He went to use the word as a descriptor, i.e. “I absolutely did not hate ch-.” But cut himself short and seemed upset- he quickly realized he almost slipped and was very shaken. He exp...

My husband wrote me a little note. On it it said. To my babe. I do really love you and want you forever. I don’t want to lose you, be mine forever Love yourthen he put his name) xxx It’s a lovely note but should he have put, I really do love you instead of, I do really love you. To me I felt it was like he was like he had questioned himself if he does love me. He said it was ver...

I like to buy nice things for the home. I’m very materialistic and I like to buy orament, plants and little things to make it cosy. I recently bought a new plant and ok it’s just some plants but my husband did not even noticed them. I had to show him and he even thought one of the plants was one that was there before. I just wanted him to notice it and say it was nice. Ok I like these thi...

So a new neighbour has moved in next door. I’ve Only heard her voice not seen her face but I think she might be quite young. You can hear her when she’s in going up the stairs and shutting doors. The houses are terraced do all close together and you can hear if so robe is in next door. This house was empty for a year and it was nice not having anyone live there snd not have to worry who w...

I broke up with someone not too long ago and it wasn't even that big of a deal I feel. We dated for three weeks and we hadn't even kissed and he just one day sent me a text saying that we shouldn't talk for a while because something that happened in his personal life(I do not know what happened, he never told me) and he just ignored me the whole time. We had a few of the same classe...

Things are not going good and there have been many ups and downs which has left me feeling totally confused abt everything atp. This month tbh majorly revolved around a heart break but not so real tho I'll tell you why so its like this my first ever crush or love technically you can say cuz we've been in what they call a situationship and there were some muffled down feelings from both s...

TLDR – Over the past few years, in large part due to my own behaviour, I appear to have lost the trust of one of my oldest and dearest friends (and former love interest). I’m struggling to move on and am not even sure if there’s a future for our friendship. Please advise. About me – 40 year old male with a chronic history of physical, emotional and verbal abuse from my mom which st...

First of all, I apologize if this is in the wrong forum or if there are any grammatical errors X'DD. Life has never been easy; it always feels like I'm missing something, but I don't know what. Lately, talking with someone doesn't felt right. I just want to ignore everybody, but I hate loneliness (kinda funny X'DD). Some people say they care about me, but I know it...

I have been on here before So sorry if my posts seems a little like the last one. Should I be happy with little touches here and there from him and be grateful when I get it in return? I just don’t feel my husband wants much sex with me it gives me the affection I crave. I like a lot of touch and affection but don’t get much from him. Plus I also say to have sex most of the time. He will ho...

I'm currently feeling stuck in life and I'm not sure what to do. I think one of the main reasons is because I don't really have anyone to go and do things with. I quite a few friends but it's a struggle to organised things with them. They all have their own partners or they live a bit too far etc. I do have my best friend. Who I love to bits however I've realised we ne...

My boyfriend and I are of same age. My boyfriend is studying in a tier 1 engineering college and I am studying in a Tier-3 engineering college. He has already secured an internship. We were discussing about future plans and stuff. I told him I cannot live with his parents if it’s like a flat you know like 2/3 rooms, 1 kitchen , 1 bathroom type. I haven’t grown up in a joint family so I am used...

The girl who i am crushing on has just left a year and a half relationship where she was pretty badlyy hurt. whats worse is that this guy is an ex friend of mine. She wasnt on my radar before and i was just trying to help her feel better but i feel ive caught feelings and idk how to show them to her without it being weird. We'v eehung out 1:1 before and its been fine but i feel like she ...

So me (F19) and my boyfriend (M18) have been dating for a month now... All of this happened today at my house. I'm home alone for 2 weeks and I hadn't seen my boyfriend in a month, so we decided he would come and spend the night. he lives about 60 kilometers from here. he came all the way here this morning and we were upstairs in my bedroom chilling and watching a movie. We were fooli...

Hi all, I’m new here so I apologise if this is in the wrong section. I would love if someone can give me some advice or just help me understand if I’m in the wrong, sorry if this is long! Here’s some backstory: been with my fiance for 5 years, we got a lovely relationship and have been through a lot together. We’re in our early 20s so he’s just finished school and moved back with h...

A guy I knew 20 odd years ago has just got in touch with me on facebook. He is married now and probably just being in friendly I know it’s probably me that has the problem I was so in love with him back then i mean he doesn’t even look the same but I can feel all those feelings coming back and I don’t know what to do to stop myself. Any advice truly appreciated thank you ...

I'm so heartbroken, we've been together nearly 7years in October, he returned to his home country in Europe for his best friends wedding over the weekend past. I found out the bride and groom went on a trip yesterday a few hours drive away with also my partner with another woman. Thanks to the bride sharing a Facebook live that's how I found out. He didn't have the decency ...

I am a married woman for 4 years and a mother to a one year old kid. My idea of marriage or any relationship had always been of loyalty. Never in my life had I ever been unfaithful even in my thoughts, let alone in person. However,when my kid was 4 months old, I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I was shocked and sorrowful. He confessed his wrong doing and regretted profusely....

So I dress up now and then for my husband and give him sex regularly and oral now and then. Ok so I don’t have a porn stars body or do all the stuff they do. My husband has looked at this stuff and I think still does but says he isn’t. I don’t like it and I once years ago caught him on his laptop on it. His zip was down so I knew it was porn. He lied and said he was reading something. I wa...

I (29) and in a relationship with my partner (60) for nearly a year now. I knew him for a short summer before we started dating and was the one to initiate the relationship. With a bit of help from some friends to encourage him. The age gap has never been a problem for us, I was forced to grow up a little quicker than most as a teenager and having grown up with older parents (70's now) I am u...

So hey guys! I met a guy and we started talking and meeting more often he also was my first kiss and we got like a little close, we spent a lot of time together and had a few similar problems. When I met him he got kicked out and so did i so we spent the whole night together outside. We met a few more times and had fun and he told me about his problems and i comforted him and everytime we met h...

For context I’m 32 and never had a gf or a relationship before. I was part of a very conservative culture where dating wasn’t allowed, but I e become more independent recently and trying to date now I want to tell you about a situation I had. I feel like I learned from it and hopefully by the time you respond to this I will have had 1 or even multiple dates. So I went to this meetup for �...

My foreign partner returns home often on his own country. I don't mind him traveling without me as his family doesn't speak English and lives in the country where there's nothing to do. I found out recently his best friend was getting married and I felt a little saddened because I wasn't invited to the happy occasion, his best friend lived in my local town in the UK for a c...

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this! My boyfriend (21) and I (20) have been in a loving relationship for about 3 years. We had many issues but we always worked through them together. Recently, around 3 months ago, his behavior shifted and he started acting really different towards me and because we are in a long distance relationship at the moment, i can‘t really tell if his ...

Stayed in a caravan five days. Said to my husband I would like to live in one. They are home from home and easy to keep. It’s a dream that’s all I have and if I won the lottery I would buy one. He said, How are you supposed to get one. We haven’t the money to buy one it was just a dream and I told him it was just a dream like if we could move away to live somewhere else I would. It’...

I had a person in my life who I had known since school, who has always been a bit of an issue. They always seem to test the limits of people, make jokes about them and take things too far. We had lost a few friends due to this. I'm not too sure why I stayed friends as long as i did. I guess because it came in waves, sometimes things were good, sometimes bad. In all truth I should of stop...

I am struggling to find loving way to talk to my wife about her hygiene. Over the past couple of years (really since our second kid was born about 3 years ago) I've noticed my wife has been neglecting her hygiene. In the beginning of our relationship when we were in high school, we were both very involved in athletics and so would need to shower daily just to keep up, but then once we got...

I have been with my bf for a year and a half and although we have a great relationship, it’s been turbulent. We both own our own homes and I moved in with him full time 6 months ago. I still own my own house and we have talked at length about me renting my house out. I have made arrangements for my home to be rented and now my bf is panicking. He says he is confused about how he feels abou...

My ex of 2 years recently asked if I wanted to have dinner. I agreed. This comes after I reached out to him a year or so ago ( he ended things) to see if we could meet. My intentions being to try again. He agreed to talk via text first and ultimately decided not to meet me and ended it with he will always have feelings for me, wished me the best etc. It was at that moment I finally decided to let ...

Stepfather Issue. Three weeks ago completely unprovoked he was name calling and mean spirited. Due to a domestic violence situation I needed somewhere to stay in a hurry. He refused me. I was hurt and distraught. Police got me a Hotel. I'm still in it. Out of the blue he calls me. As though nothing happened between us. Says where are you? I do not tell. Says he ca...

About 8-9 years ago I met this man online. I was stupid enough to fall for his lies and believed him when he told me he was separated even though they still lived together, he was making plans to leave. That never happened. Unfortunately by then I’d fallen for him and we would see each other now and then, he works full time and lives about 4-5 hours drive away. We hadn’t seen each other for a ...

Best Get Well Gift For A Man Sending a get well gift is the perfect way to show your support and love for a man in your life who is feeling under the weather. Whether it’s your father, brother, husband or friend, receiving a thoughtful get well gift can bring a smile to their face and help them on the road to recovery. However, with so many options available, it can be overwhelming to choose th...

Went to a family bar mitzvah. The first grandchild of my closest sister which I refer to as sister 2. I was told by my nephew who is giving the event that no cousins are invited when the invites went out since my kids didn't receive an invite. Then I found out when going to the event that my other sister (1), kids and grandkids were all invited. I refer to her sister one. I was invited wi...

Hey! I got diagnosed with a deformity which was causing me pain for years yesterday. I also recently got into a relationship with a guy(1.5 months ago). Since ill be in constant pain and drugged up most of he time and he has issues with his job and home I asked if he'd like to take the easy way out? And he agreed. Now I don't know how i feel about that. On one hand I want him back but th...

I really like my best friend's ex. I've known him for about a year now and we've become good friends through his relationship with my best friend, Ally (fake name). Ally and Jake (fake name) dated for about six months, and through that time I was caught in the middle of it as a kind of mediator for both of them. They had some big communication issues and everyone around them always ...

I'm a 25yo gay bottom but I don't think it would matter if I was straight or younger or older. I have never had a romantic relationship, that is objectively untrue as I did have a boyfriend for abit but he dumped me because we never had sex. In my entire life I have never had any comprehension of what a relationship is.. like I've never seen it anywhere. While my parents wer...

I recently got out of a 5-year abusive relationship. After the relationship was over I ran into one of my favorite people I've ever known so far my 44 years. Him and I hit it off pretty good. It was going really strong he spent the night with me every night for two straight weeks. Once I started talking about my feelings towards him and he talked about his towards me,he started pushing me...

Me and my partner have been together since 2020. We have 2 kids a house and a dog together. let me just give you some context into our relationship before I start When me and my partner got together I did everything for him I was and still am completely selfless. There were a few issues when we first got together such as I once squeezed his hand so he punched me in the arm. He also never walke...

(Typuing fast and js got my nails done so might not have great spelling lmao) So there's this guy I've liked on and off since November (Now May) but he's giving me MAJOR mixed signals and I'm not a very bold person so I'm so conflicted on what to do. Here's a rundown on the timeline of my relationships this year. NOTE: He's on my volleyball team cus I play ...

Hello! I have posted about my past relationship experience in great detail. @SoulMate I have missed you & I always remember you in my prayers. So, a month ago, I made a dating profile which is actually meant for marriage. The concept is that it is a religious app for singles to seek a partner. I got connected to some people but we our interests were different. 20 days ago, I matche...

So my boyfriend and i were not arguing he was outside doing yard work, but grabbed his phone when he went outside and left me inside to do whatever. I became hurt and irritated so i stormed off. Its been 8hrs and he asnt even called to see if im ok. Should i call him first, een though i would sound like a broken record?...

I’ve not had sex for four days. Been arguing with hubby and sleeping in separate beds. We Started talking again and I said, Get yourself ready for sex, He said whoo as if he wasn’t bothered. It really hurt me because I thought he would want it then he said, You can’t expect me to just go on as if nothing has happened. We did not have it and I know he was tired but I thought he would want...

Went to an outdoor pool with my husband. Four women were in there and about 30 years old and some mums and dads with there kids. I saw my husband look in the women’s direction a few times and over my shoulder at them which upset me as he was there to have fun with me. I asked if he knew them and he said he didn’t and said, Your not doing this again are you. He denies he looked at them and ...

Well, I'm in a relationship rut and I'm not sure how to go about anything anymore. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years The problems started early with insecurities from his side along with a porn addiction and hiding things from me. We fought and fought through this. This most hurtful part was him asking for a 3some. He was always bringing it up despite our issues. He...