Boyfriend is obsessed with farts….Help

YOUNGHIPPIE_CAT - May 18 2026 at 04:21
I learned accidentally a couple months ago that my (F23) boyfriend (M22) has a fart/burp fetish. He doesn’t care for the smell, only the “sound and vibration” from them. He says it started with the live action Scooby Doo film.
I feel uncomfortable to fart around him and try to leave the room when I can. Whenever I do fart a “good fart” as he says, he gets aroused and he lets me know. I think that it’s gross and it makes me uncomfortable, and I have let him know this many MANY times. Tonight he fell asleep early, (we live together) and I grabbed his phone to set his alarm for work like I usually do. I open the phone and right there is a big booty woman farting in someone’s face. Apparently is a part of a Discord group relating to farts? I am disappointed and disgusted with him, but I do truly love this man with all my heart.
I have told him to suppress his feelings on farts and to quit looking it up. I honestly thought he quit looking that stuff up until tonight. What should I/We do?
TLDR: boyfriend loves fart sounds sexually. I don’t like that. What do I/We do?
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YoungHippieCat,
That's just downright Antisocial to point of revolting and repulsing.
Every fart kicks another bit of fond feeling for him, out of you.
Certainly sexually, he is perverted to point of insane.
It is NOT acceptable if one wants not to keep getting chucked by their girlfriends. Also he tricked you into this relationship by having revealed his perversion only once you were enmeshed.
Your emotional attachment to him is lessening as we speak (emotions are sloooow at catching-up up with intellect, but they do).
You're probably not enough to make him give that up (he'd need therapy OR to find his equally-antisocial female counterpart). NO woman would.
But this issue goes for ANYTHING that a spouse refuses to cease doing despite he knows full-well that it somehow upsets/disgusts/destabilizes his Numero Uno.
Meanwhile (warning-warning-danger-danger) by repeatedly doing it, he is underhandedly DESENSITIZING YOU TO THAT AND OTHER GROSS BEHAVIOUR...so that you'll tire of protesting and accept it (in a heap of defeat). It's called Eroding Your Boundaries (and Narcs do it...always only AFTER you're well-and-truly hooked whereby you'd choose gross-out over heartbreak of splitting up). (Me I'd split up because short-term pain is better than long-term misery.)
Best check out the web for something along the lines of 'Disgusting habits & perversions of the Narc boyfriend'....just to eliminate it from the enquiry.