Lost and confused

I was dating this guy whom I met a few months ago. Everything was going great until I did not come see him one day and I think he ghosted me. Now I’m lost and confused and don’t know what’s to do. I really like him. I have called and texted him and I haven’t gotten a reply. What am I supposed to do?

So assuming this didn't just happen in the past 48 hours, you need to just take two steps away from it all & understand that actions do all the talking while words mean bugger all. This guy's disposition & his actual qualities are on display. Have you offended him by not turning up one day? or is he just using that as an excuse to ghost you? You really liked him but has he treated you well & respected you? You tried contacting him, so the ball's in his court but, unless the guy's in a coma somewhere or worse, you're not likely to get any reply from him. Yes of course you need an answer - who wouldn't in your situation - but all you need to do is start moving on from it, get your confidence back up again & learn from the experience, especially when it was all going great.

The questions that would be running through my mind are, "Did he die?", and, "Is someone holding him captive somewhere?" I'd try to find out first of all that he is still fine and well. (And not under pressure from the Mafia and surveillance cameras forcing him to respond in a certain way.) He could have something going on. Maybe he had to abruptly move, or change his phone number. Do you think he would really be so mad over you not being able to see him one day? How did that all go down, anyway? If you like him, try to dig in and get to the bottom of this mystery, Gumshoe! See what you can find out.

'Come to see him', you said. You, going to his place. After only 2 months, presuming a once-per-week-date...the usual rate for starting-off? If that's the case, then, he wanted a sh*g and because his order didn't arrive, he rang another 'service'. In future, make them wait a good 6 months - to see if their Like and Respect for you (including, you being sure of yourself) is strong enough to make-up for it whilst waiting and working for that level of intimacy. If it isn't, he'll be off, and you've dodged a bullet. Because if you sleep with them, your brain does funny things and attaches you too soon, to where you're hurtable (if they're secretly a user/sex-obsessed sl*t). All YOU did was be unable to turn up and, look! He was off! Didn't it hurt HIM to detach that suddenly? Doesn't seem like it, does it. So there was none or woefully little attachment. Tell him (if he suddenly reappears without a legit excuse) you hope he and his bed-notches will be very happy together.

I'll explain: by not blocking or deleting you, he's left the gate to you, open. Why not close it? I mean, ostensibly he's left for-good (and isn't retarded so knows that's how it looks!). So why not do the formality of closing the gate, to prove it? Answer: If he closed it, he wouldn't then be able to pop back out of the woodwork (like nothing's happened - giving you some BS 'reason') to get your services if/whenever his Little Black Book failed to get him any free call-girls (his perception, not mine) that are somehow more convenient than you... In short - he's leaving you still-available. Delete/block him. If I'm wrong, he's a big boy, quite capable of proving it. HIS fault for letting you see behaviour that suggested too heavily he was a Player who'd played you, merely for as long as it suited him. You should have been THERE when he clicked his fingers! You should have been GAGGING to get used by him! Don't you know he's utterly ffffabulous?!...and therefore is allowed to be so over-entitled and anti-empathetic?