Hiding me from friends and family and now ghosting me

I've been dating this woman for over a year and a half. Overall has been a great relationship and we've had a lot of fun. She recently got her own place after living with a roommate for years and we discussed me moving in, but both decided the time was not right both financially and logistically. Well, she recently lost her job and was going through a bit of a rough patch, so I spent a lot of time over with her to be there emotionally and to help out with things she needed. One thing that never sat well with me is that she always kept me from her roommate/best friend. The only times I met her was when my gf needed me to do something to help them out and it seemed like I was just some guy doing her a favor. A couple weeks ago, she told me her 32 year old daughter was coming into town. Her father is deceased and according to my gf, she told the daughter all about me and that I would get to meet her and we would do some things together. Come the day of her arrival, I did not hear from her for a bit so I texted her to ask if everything was ok. She told me that the daughter did NOT want to meet me. I asked what brought that about and she said that "she just said it and I can't force it". It all seemed very strange as it went against what she said and she didn't even provide any sort of explanation. So I left it be for a couple days until my birthday came and I didn't even get any sort of acknowledgement from her.. I texted and called but with no response. I could understand if her daughter didn't want to meet some other man in her moms life, but she simply could have told me that. I don't know if she simply had no intention of introducing me or said something to make her not want to meet me. I'll try again after the daughter leaves, but really, how can I possibly continue on after this?

Your gut's telling you that things aren't right despite the fun & the good times. It's not worth hanging around waiting to find out what the real issue is either. If the woman has no respect for you or your time etc then it's pushing the proverbial uphill trying to have a successful relationship with her. Her actions are doing the talking & really, you can't possibly continue on with being a doormat. Forget about her excuses etc because if she can't put you on her arm & proudly introduce you to whoever (& never mind her family) then what's the use? So head off & do your own thing & understand that you've dodged a bullet by not moving in with her. To be frank, for all it's worth, I personally would have told her where to go a long time ago.

Truth is you are right. She has been flighty in the past but I put up with it as there was magic there at times. I guess I enabled her by always letting that behavior slide.