Bad relationship with husband

RACHNA - Jun 6 2026 at 08:45
My husband does not talk to me properly since 2 years of marriage. Forget about physical relationship, He avoids sex and has never given me an orgasm. he does not even want to have an emotional relationship. We also have a son. My husband does not even perform his duties as a father properly. He is also in debt. My mother-in-law always fights with me. My sister-in-law is jealous of my beauty and wears my saree and salwar kurti without my permission, which makes me feel bad. What should I do?
If nothin changes, everythin remains the same
If you want things to be different - somethin must change
You have the chance to make things, how you would like them to be
Only you can make that change
Hi Rachna,
It sounds very much to me like Narcissism (of varying sub-type and degree per person) exists on his side of the family.
They're all in their own ways trampling on your human rights and boundaries.
Did his mother pressure him into marrying? And having a kid? Clearly, he doesn't want either. SO WHY DID HE DO BOTH!
Are you - his (supposedly) being married with kid - just 'window dressing' and/or for 'a quiet life' (no such thing btw)?
Are you sure he's even heterosexual?
Does he socialise without you as well?