Boyfriend won't have sex with me

Me and my boyfriend broke up for several months and i had sex with another man. We got back together but he says he is not ready to have sex with me it has been a long time and he still isnt ready. He will pleasure me though and his personality towards me has not changed and he talks about it all time like we still have sex. But he will not let me pleasure him he will let me get him a little excited then he will stop me..please help

Talk to him about it, ask him why he's reluctant to have sex with you. He may be feeling insecure about his body, or wants to only have sex with someone he really loves, who knows. Just communicate with him! It will bring you the best solutions to come as long as you both are willing to work toward it :) Good luck, take care!

i had a very similar experience with my gf, we broke up and during that time she slept with two guys. when we got back together it was very difficult coping with the fact that she did that and sex was extremely difficult. everytime we would engage in sex, all that would go through my mind is that she was doing this and making another guy feel this when it should have been with me. its a horrible feeling. i still feel that way today and that happened about 7 months ago. i say give him time to be ready, its not worth trying to force him and have him feel like sex isnt special anymore.