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My boyfriend asked for two weeks of space but not. We can still text and call but limited and I can only see him once a week and we can only do something like watch a movie. He says its not about me or his doubt to be with me, he loves me and wants a future with me. But he broke up with me twice within that day to ask for space because he was worried he wouldnt get it, had me sleep in my car because I was suppose to sleep over and my house was getting bug bombed and I couldn't go home, and he asked for this because I was suppose to sleep over and he started to have anxiety. some more facts hes 30 im 23 he cheated on me in the first month of our relationship because he freaked out when he realized he was in love with me (we were seeing each other non offical for two months before offical) I have met only two or three of his friends and his mom for five seconds. We have been together seven months. He started therapy to work on some issues. he does support me and is nice to me but it feels like only when he can handle it.

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Hey Chellie~ I have a question: Do you REALLY want to be with this guy? I mean, you're still rather young, and you don't have to deal with a guy who seems pretty.. out of it. And it's pretty outrageous of him to have made you sleep in your car, rather than let you sleep over, and that he broke up with you twice, just for a break. I mean, come on. You can do better than this. He even cheated on you after freaking out -- who, right in their head would do that? Cheating is wrong, it is NEVER acceptable. I'm amazed you took him back, but it's inexcusable of his actions, no matter the reason for him cheating on you. If I were you, I'd find someone else, someone better.. BUT! If you insist on being with this guy still, just try to communicate efficiently with him to figure out what he wants and work out whatever you can that will help better your relationship together with him. I just really think you should re-evaluate your relationship with him.

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