5 relationship tips
1.Solve problems without involving a third party
No need to run for advice to parents, friends or anonymous people on the forum. You always know better what is happening in a relationship, since it is you who know all the circumstances of the conflict.
Suppose you nevertheless turned to your mother for support and she agreed that your partner is wrong and generally a bad person. Only you and the offender will then make peace, and for your mother (friend, the entire Internet), he will remain a scoundrel.
2. Don't Ignore Warning Signals
In most relationships, there is a presentation period when both partners try to appear better than they really are. And if already at the candy-bouquet stage you see danger signals, do not ignore them, trust your intuition.
Unreasonable outbursts of aggression, rudeness towards waiters, unflattering remarks about exes and other things that bother you can easily be written off as “it seemed” and “he / she will improve.” Most likely, it didn’t seem to you and your partner will not improve. Soberly think about whether you are ready to face such negative manifestations on a regular basis.
3.Do not consider jealousy as an indicator of high feelings
The requirement to stop communicating with all persons of the opposite sex, ambiguous reactions to every glance in the direction of an attractive person, attempts to control correspondence do not indicate great love and fear of losing a partner. This is a way of control and the very alarm signal that should not be ignored.
4.Don't Tolerate a Partner Who Does Nasty Things to Teach You a Lesson
Taking the position of a teacher, a person ceases to be an equal partner and begins to act from the point of view of a higher level, a subject who is allowed more. What's next? Will he give you grades and expel you from home for poor performance? Someone who deliberately makes you feel guilty is not good for a relationship.
5.Talk about love
Have you confessed your feelings to your partner once and do you think that this is enough? Do not take the person next to you for granted, be grateful that he chose you. Remind that you love, say compliments. It's simple and free, but a very valuable token.
I've never been in a relationship, because for me it's something very serious and personal, so I don't consider myself ready for that. But I have a clear idea of a normal relationship, and my advice to myself in the future is as follows:
By my nature, I am a very honest person. It is difficult for me to lie even about something very weightless, because my conscience torments me after that. Therefore, in a relationship, I would like the same from a partner.
If people of different religions, morals, life principles - their relationship is most likely doomed to failure if someone does not dare to change. People in a relationship should be like-minded.
3. Mutual understanding
It is also one of the important components of a serious relationship. People should live with each other's experiences and happiness.
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