Ignored

I was accusing my husband of being onto someone on his phone. He told me he was playing games on it and I heard the sound on his phone from the game but then it would go quiet. He said that’s what it does. I was in the bathroom whilst he was on it. He denies he’s cheating and onto someone and we slepted apart. The next day he was saying I don’t give a shit about him and what I done. He went to bed to sleep which he did for a while so I said I was going out. I needed to get out of the house and he stayed out of the house himself and it was getting late and I asked where he was and kepted ringing him on and off for three hours. He didn’t answer at all. I was ready to call the police then he sent a text to say he only answered me to stop me ringing him. So for three hours I was worried sick for no reason. I asked him why he didn’t tell me earlier to stop calling and to leave him alone and he said I didn’t care about us. I think it was awful what he did by not letting me know he was ok. I feel he done it to get me back because I accused him. We have had years of marriage counselling on and off to do with me not trusting him and it hasn’t really helped me. Do you think it was immature of him to of ignored me for three hours when he could of told me sooner. He is 56 I’m 52.

First off he is too damn old to be playing games with you . For someone to know that you have trust issues and y’all went through counseling together for him to not answer the phone for 3 hrs and go M.I.A those are clear signs to start setting up boundaries!