Is my lady friend fallen in love with a man who grabbed & kissed her

1. My lady friend with whom I am dating for 5 years is a widow had gone for a trip some days ago with her other lady friends. There was one lady who also took her boyfriend with her and he was also known to my lady friend. 2. My lady friend had one said that the man somehow or the other tried in earlier occasion to express his love for her and tried to convince her for dating. However she denied every time as he was her friends boyfriend and she was not interested in him. She didn't tell this to her friend as her friend might not believe her. 3. During the trip, one day my lady friend was resting in her hotel room and watching her mobile. She had forgotten to lock her room. suddenly there was a power cut for few minutes, and the man came from somewhere and grabbed her two hands and kissed her. she was shocked and pusher him back and rushed from her room. Even now she didn't tell this to her friend with a thought that she might not believe and the man also started to create falls sense of fear. She is soft minded she succumbed to fear. 4. Now recently she went for another trip with the group, the man again has started to convince her and asked for forgiveness to which my lady friend has said she has forgiven him. now he is being very helpful to her and has taken care of her during the trip and she too seem very convinced with his behavior and has said that as a woman she could feel that the man loves her genuinely and he is not a bad man and is not ready to accept whenever I am trying to say that that man is playing games and this time trying to woo her being nice. 5. In one occasion the man had a chance to seat by her side in the beach and held her hand and asked for forgiveness for the same incident. I have asked my lady friend why this time again and also asked how did she feel when the man was nagging? she didn't say anything of his behaviour but said the moment was good. I am in a fix. Is my lady in love with the man?

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You've been dating this woman for 5 years? only dating? Yeah this bloke looks to be playing games, but your woman hasn't told him where to go. I'd be talking to her straight about her reactions to the whole issue & I'd be looking at that those 5 years you've been dating. Just remember that actions speak & words mean bugger all.