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I met this guy online. We live in the same city and are of the same age. We used to chat everyday and soon we became the best of buddies. We were really fond of each other. We did meet and have phone conversations as well. Soon we fell in love and started dating each other. After two months of our relationship which was going on really well..he said he had lost feelings for me as i didn't give him space and "choked" him by texting all day. I promised i would not do so henceforth but in the end he said he just wanted to remain friends like before. I called him but he refused to talk. Frustated i cursed him a lot via text. After that he blocked me and inspite of apologizing several times he finally sent me a very abusive email and said that he hates me and that i was just pretending to apologize. I am very heartbroken..hurt and upset. I miss him a lot but i know he won't return. To worsen my condition i hear he is dating another friend of mine whom he met online too. I am devasted. I can't stop thinking about this. It's torturing me to hell! please help me out.

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Giving you a hug right now... It's hard to let go of things that made us so happy.. And feel defeated when we learn that things are changing and the one who used to make us happy is happy with somebody else now... Aki if you keep thinking of this, this wil really torture you. I know how you feel, been there done that. But one thing I learn is the best thing to do is to just accept things. Yeah it's easier said than done. But you can do it. Divert your time to do quality things. Spend time with friends and family. So little by little you will be stop thinking of him. Another one I learned, when things are over for both of you, NEVER EVER LOOK BACK.. I mean no texting, no emails and looking his updates in any social sites... The more you look back, the more you get hurt. Keep moving forward... Just be happy he once become a part of your life and made you happy.. That is enough. Let him go... Because somebody better is coming along your way.. Believe and be surprise! Always wear a smile:-)

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