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I am an Business man from Dubai, single 29 yrs old having own company here.One year before one girl called me on phone because she needs some service to her house.So i started sending my staffs.She called me often for this propose.I think its gods wish she started asking about me to my staffs about my appearance,married or single,etc... When i came to know about this i asked her she acted to me like she's not aware of it.But she started contacting almost every day and started telling about her.That she's an afghan origin but hold russian citizen, came from wealthy family,has seven brothers living in different country and she's engaged to one guy who's 15 years older than her without her wish but for her family.And she said she doesn't have any friends cz family never allow her socialize with people.I felt sad on her and started replaying her whenever she calls me. Suddenly one day she fell in love with me before she saw my face.I said its childish.She asked me to come to one place where she comes with her family.We both saw each other just for 2 min.Then she started loving me so much but i refused it'll not happen.She started crying so much and started begging me.My heart stopped once bcz no women cried to me like this.Then i become very serious with her.1 year it was a happiest moment in our life.We never met each other more than 5 min.I used to wait hours in airport ,hospitals,parks and where ever she goes with family just to see her face for 2 min.That 2 min's equal for years for us. At the same time she started to think about her family because her mother's very sick and its her wish to marry her to that guy.And she scared of her brothers too.I told her i have so many local contacts here in Dubai so i can come to her house to ask them.But she completely refused it and told they'll never ever accept even though we both belong to same religion.At last tried to convince her to come with me.She was scared too much. I didnt know what to do.I am loving her so much and decided she's my whole life.Suddenly when i come to know she's not going to be mine it affected me too much.I couldn't concentrate on my business and it affected in all means. I cried and pleaded her not to go.But she didnt listen and she got married last week.After that also i had confident that one day she'll come to me.She messaged me that she got married and will explain everything in e-mail.But i waited i didnt get it.I was also scared to send sms because if her husband sees it her life'll be spoiled.Finally night 3 p.m i send one sms "I have been waiting for your e-mail.Still i didnt get it.R u avoiding me or your situation's like that?Still i live with hope that one day you'll come back to me.If you have any intention for that i'll wait happily as much as i can.If you are satisfied with your husbands love and decided your whole life will be with him tell me i'll try to for got you and move on". She replayed " You please take care for your life.I am in very bad situation". I got shocked and asked her what happened. She said her husband's very rude, always abusing her and shouting her.Initially she didn't want to make any relationship with him because of her confusion.But that guy forced her and took her.So its started bleeding and she was in hospital for one day. That time she was a virgin.I started begging her to come with me and i am still ready to accept her and i'll be ready forever.But she refused and she said she's married whether she likes him or not she has to live with him for her family. I really don't what to do.At lest if she said she's happy i can try to forgot her.In this situation i don't know what to do When ever i remember her face i think about flower.But when i think its crushing by someone its paining too much.She knows very well if something happened to her i cant bear.The why she told everything and telling me to move on?I already promised her i can wait as much as she wants.But she's telling me to take care of me even though she know's which's impossible in this situation. I cant read her mind.I never had girl friend before her.She cant be happy with him for one week.The how she can live with him whole life.Several time she told nobody loves her the way i love her.The why she did this?I am seriously affected. She told me she'll contact me when she get time.I love her so much.Dying to hear her voice.Her husband's always with him.In a week she's going to u.s with him.I dnt know what to do.what's in her min????!!!!! what step i have to take? please someone advice me.

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