Girlfriend problems
CHARLIEGOODWIN - Nov 27 2012 at 01:12
I am looking for advice? I just got back with my ex recently and she is struggling with the idea that I seen other girls whilst we had broken up, I had dated
but nothing serious and nothing that worked out so I thought it wouldn't be a big deal, She had told me before breaking up that she never wanted to be with me again
and that I should find someone else, I really loved her so was broken up about it but was trying to move on as I didn't want to be the sad stalker type,
I tried seeing other girls, My ex got back in touch and we seemed to be both missing each other even though 10 months had passed so decided to give it
another shot, We got talking about our time apart and to my surprise she said she hadn't seen anyone during the time away from me, as I didn't want to hurt
her I didn't go into details about what I had done with these other girls, As time has passed she has become increasingly interested about my time away from
her and it didn't help that she found random photos on my computer that I hadn't deleted yet of a couple of the girls, (Not explicit photos)
It was just what I didn't need as she has some trust issues due to past relations and also I used to have alot of female friend before which caused some bother
previously especially one that was my ex but I have never cheated on her and never would, truth is I love her loads and need her to accept I only never
told the details about my dates to protect her feelings and because this was a fresh start felt I was justified, Does anyone feel I have been unreasonable as
since she quizzed this information out of me she seems distant and hurt?
Yep, you have to prove it to her that you love her and that she is the only woman.
So, start now and delete EVERYTHING that has to do with any other chicks.
I am a woman myself and if my husband did the same thing, I would expect to be chased and showered with love. That'll be his ticket to gain my trust again.
Be sweet to her, ALWAYS tell her that you love her and that she is the only one. Better be sure she is too. :)
You have a lot of work to do, but I believe you can do it.