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I'm Aydan, 27 years old. I have been noticing something weird for years now, that I deliberately push to the back of my mind everytime. I have 2 younger siblings, and we're all 2 years apart from each other. I love them of course! However, recently the weird behaviours have been more frequent and it seems like it's been done on purpose. My siblings tend to ignore me on purpose and/o...

How do you deal with an adult friend who is on their phone the ENTIRE TIME you're out with them? To date, I have not confronted the situation, but I've grown increasingly annoyed with the rudeness and I'm not sure how to "tactfully" handle it. What I would love to say is, if you're going to spend the entire night on your phone, why don't you just stay home? Tr...

Okay, so before I give an update on my unprofessional and predatory principal, I would like to share why my girlfriend called him weird. He is EXTREMELY predatory (wish we had physical proof). We have a big picture on one of our walls in our school where everyone can addto it. That being said he had told her "Can you go color that wall just for me." in this voice that sent CHILLS throug...

Before i start fully explaining the situation I just want to say that I'm aware how absolutely insane and paranoid I sound but I need to someone to tell me if i am just being paranoid or if I am based in how I feel. this situation started today when me and my cousin who i also consider my closest and bestest friend of 5 years called like we normally do. the conversation was entirely normal un...

I'm 15 and pregnant. One of my best friends is the dad. He's 16. We've never dated, but we had sex a couple of times and he ended up getting me pregnant. We're still super close and he's really supportive. He comes to all of my appointments and cries with me and is just all around a super sweet boy. My parents have known about the pregnancy for around five months. They&...

My classmate always does weird things with her tongue. She often sticks her tongue out, showing the smooth polkadotted light pink surface of her tongue and the shiny pink edges of her tongue. I could also see the rainbow colors underneath her tongue like the blue and purple veins and yellow midline on the cherry pink underside of her tongue. I don't like it when I see her tongue like that....

I don't want to focus in on any one issue, but there are a few different things troubling me as of late. I reckon I used to think I had a pretty good "radar" for sensing out good friendships, and people to consider friends. But some of my longest-lasting friendships have thrown me for a loop lately. I'm starting to think that maybe since I've grown as a person I now v...

I'm fifty years old. I've overcome shyness and social anxiety, and thanks to thousands of pounds of private therapy, I overcame self-harming too. My sister is sixty-eight and my brother is sixty-four. My brother has severe mental health issues and is on benefits, and my sister is my mother's carer. Neither have worked for decades. My father died in 2012, and my mother is ninety...

I need to know if I am overthinking things or am I right on the money!! I have been with this dude for going on 4 ta 5 years and we have been thru some shit.... But when we argue he calls me names and is so mean and hateful... He swears I am childish or always starting shit.... If I ask a question he says you ask too many questions or he will avoided the question all together....any t...

Okay I know this is a lot, but once I explain you'll see why I am seeking advice. So, my fiancé and I currently live in Salem, Oregon. We were brought here by someone who was considered a friend at the time. Let me say my fiancé had a work accident and destroyed his back and has stenosis in his neck so he can't work. Yes, we are currently working on applying for disability but it�...

I am 19 years old, and my younger female cousin is 14 years old. She recently went to a new school for 8th grade this year. She has developed a crush on a 43 year old teacher. She claims it's not a crush and that she constantly thinks about him, etc, but I believe that it's disturbing. She knows it's disturbing, but has "undeniable feelings" for this man 3 times her...

This is not the world's most interesting problem, but I am at a place where I'm not sure what to do, and don't feel comfortable telling family and friends. I am currently in college (undergrad) and am in a program that I am investing a lot of time into. within this program, we have graduate student mentors, who we obviously see a lot. I have a terrible, terrible crush on one of ...

My mother set me up a court law trap. A couple of years earlier a stranger sued me for absolutely lies and the court was recently. My mother persuaded me to use her lawyer and while I was certain I would be declared innocent she threatened me the court eve that she would have me condemned. In fact this is what happened luckily a suspended sentence. Now my mother threatens me that other unknown...

I am almost done graduating college and I have Absolutely no idea what to do when i am Finished. To me there are three options: 1. The first one being move to a new state and start a whole new life (i am Not a fan of Florida whatsoever) 2. Get a job in my degree and pursue that even though I do Not want a desk job for the rest of my life 3. Stay at my job now as a server that probably makes mo...

Didn't really know what to title this post My tiktok account is currently private cuz of a situation that had happened. The person is already blocked on there. It was a scammer But I do wanna go back to public but I'm afraid of them finding me again. Mostly because I noticed my posts don't get much engagement private like it did when it was public. I changed my username and ...

Owning a dog is my biggest regret in life. My dog is 6.5 years old. I adopted him from streets when he was a pup. I made a huge blunder at that time by being playful with him. Walking him outside is the biggest nightmare for me. Letting him defecate is the most difficult thing. He doesn't defecates at home. He poops and urinates only outside. I get abused by people for letting him defecate...

It's been almost 10 years since I've spoken with her, the last time being when I catfished her after planning a meetup where I came onto her. Before that, almost every encounter I had with her involved me groping her. I want to reconnect and apologize but I'm afraid she'll react negatively and/or expose our past. Help?...

I've been hiding away from my room for 4 years, this started around 2020, during the pandemic era, I started becoming a shut-in at sixteen, now 18, I dropped out of high school the moment I became a shut-in, the reason was the constant bullying with my appearance, I hated how I looked, and staying in my room all day during the pandemic has made my appearance even worse, so when I noticed how ...

Hi. On September 14, 2023, a lady from a social media app told me that she could help me with clothes sewing. We meet online on September 16, and we meet in person at her house on September 23. I had two bags that contained a box of chocolate for her family and clothes for her daughter. (I wanted to show my gratitude before she even sewed anything for me.) A Cozy Earth Bamboo Creamy...

For the past 4 years I have raised a child like he has been my own. His mother was just a neighbor. She was having a lot of trouble with men and having to move a lot. The child was with us four days a week to help her out. Then when school started he started to live with us because she "forgot" to register him. So we got him registered in my town. He moved in with us and started school....

I'm from a country (India) where it requires extremely good driving skills. Roads are narrow and traffic is very heavy. Traffic is so heavy that there is a huge risk of unskilled drivers to bump into other vehicles. All cars and vehicles are very close to each other. In India, we all have manual car transmission. Actually, me (25) and my brother (27) are naturally not made for driving cars...

Hi everybody, i am currently freaking out. i've been out as a lesbian for almost 4 years, known it for 7. i'm in therapy for other reasons and i'm starting to find out that i have a very messed up, complicated relationship with men due to me being abused online by an older man when i was in my early teens. that's the big reason but there has been some other minor instances ...

New here, but I've been dealing with some roommate issues for over 2 years now, and I'm at a loss. First, as vaguely specific as I can be, this is my first living situation outside of living with family, but I would like to think that I'm managing as best as anyone could. I, 27M, am living with a two roommates, 32F and 45M, who are engaged. We planned our move in together for a ...

First time asking for advice so bear with me. This past Christmas Day, my 85 yo mom had a stroke. I was the one to contact one sister who has Power of Attorney, etc. Also a RN who has tried to help keep my mom healthy. Since then, my mom has been in the hospital and it's been difficult to say the least. The One Sister I've been talking to, and to say we have no real relations...

My son is a talented quarterback in American football at his high school. He is also gifted in education. I’d never force him to do anything he doesn’t want to do, but he loves football. He has been noticed by over 20 colleges and has invites to camps, but will not complete the college questionnaires when asked by the coaches, will not respond to the coaches requests for camp attendance, etc. ...

My husband and I host a family get together every Christmas Eve for our adult children and grandchildren (we have 5). We also invite my adult great-niece and her family (husband, children (3), and sisters (2) that live about 45 minutes away. We buy our grandchildren five gifts each and my niece’s children and sisters one gift each. It’s always kind of awkward when handing out gifts because our...

25 year old male here. I have a serious Instagram addiction. I spend a lot of time viewing Instagram posts, shorts and stories. It gives me a lot of pleasure but I don't realize how dangerous it is for me. I waste around 1.5-2 hours on Instagram per day. Wasting my huge portion of time is very counterproductive for me. This addictive habit is destroying me as a person. I have zero discipline....

I am wondering if someone could give me some advice. I don’t reside in the UK or USA so the laws are slightly different. We have a building administrative manager within a complex of just 4 units. The other units are dominated by a family – father, mother, daughter and son. So, the family controls the building administrative manager although, by law, they are supposed to act fairly and equ...

want to hear how many here on the site. can / are good in terms of spiritual abilities in terms of sensing illness at a distance? since some people are good at laying on of hands.. if anyone here can help, who will help for free?...

Met this girl at orientation week of college, and she is super sweet and fun to be around. We’re also doing very similar majors which means I’ll most likely share some classes with her, and I really like her. However I’m not so sure if she likes me back because there are times where I think she does and other times where I don’t think so. We’re both part of a friend group and I heard ...

25 year old guy here. I have a very weird and insane habit of ejaculating which is ruining my focus and personality. I am really sorry to express embarassing things about myself here but I want to seek help. I often think about quitting ejaculation forever but I fail to stop my urge to ejaculate. I ejaculate 2 times daily. My way of ejaculation is also extremely unusual and weird. I take aroun...

I believe I may need genuine Help. I just can't seem to get it anywhere....

I'm planning to celebrate 10 years of the anniversary of when I left primary school in July by looking back on the day and putting a celebration video on YouTube so I can look back at it every year. I'm concerned however someone will find out about the video though and say something about it. What should I do? I miss primary school very much and I like looking back every year....

My friend got into a relationship and didn't tell me. They told others that they have only recently met but kept it a secret from me and we've been friends for years. It kind of hurt that they thought they could tell others but not me and it makes me feel like they don't trust me or that maby we they don't think we're as close as I thought we were. I only found out that th...

Okay here goes nothing, I’m a 46f a good few years ago I got with a guy Much younger than me. It wasn’t serious met a few times, we lost touch and remained friends from a distance. He got married last year 1st anniversary was recently. He moved to my area and started working locally, which I’d see him daily He is now telling me daily he has always loved me (cringe) Although he’s a g...

Hi! I'm a 24 year old dude here (nearing 25). I have destroyed my career by quitting my master's degree before completing it. I made a very terrible and foolish mistake just because I felt extremely terrible symptoms. I still have Bachelor's degree (BA). I took Psychology and Anthropology in the final year of my Bachelor's program. I studied English, Anthropology and Psychology...

Hello, A lot of info to cover but I'll try to keep it brief. I have been thinking about working abroad for a summer (most likely at a US summer camp) as I have always wanted to have the experience and develop myself as a person in addition to being a much needed break from everyday life. Aside from the obvious worries about travelling abroad for the first time on my own thousands of miles ...

I'm a 24 year old guy. I have a very bad habit of wasting my time on internet. I spend around 9 hours on internet. I mindlessly waste time on watching youtube videos, instagram, quora and searching the web. I feel like I have nothing to watch or search on internet. I compulsively try to think what should I watch/search. I feel unsatisfied with the amount of things I search/watch online. ...

Why do I get jealous of other peoples lives and follow what they are doing and want to be like them. I go on holidays with my husband, have nights away, meals out and go the cinema yet I feel other people have better lives. If our kids go on holiday, to gigs or nights away I get jealous even thou I want them to be having fun and looking after themselves. I settled down young and had my kids and...

I'm a 24 year old dude. I'm in huge trouble related to my career as well as health. I made extremely foolish decision. I am having mucormycosis like symptoms since late April 2021 (caught due to covid-19). When I heard about this disease for the 1st time, it was already very progressed as it reached my eyes by that time. Two months later, it had reached my brain (around July 2021). I...

I am angry at my mom…..she is very passive aggressive. My siblings and I are not that close, she used to pin us against each other as children, they rarely see her. After high school I put myself through nursing school and got accepted into school to be a nurse practitioner. My dad died and she claimed she got no money and asked for me to help her financially. I did and didn’t go to school...

Hello. I am writing this to get any kind of advice,help,relief, anything that will make this bullshit stop! I am with a guy who seriously thinks he can see things, he talks to himself... He catches things out of the air, and when he catches them he will throw them in baggies, a bowl with a lid, he was throwing them in microwave last night and pushing start saying they turned in to static... He th...

It sometimes smells in my youth club's corridor. I'm a young person and should I talk to my youth leaders about this? Every time I go out in the corridor I have to hold my nose....

Well, where do I start? Let's start from the beginning. As a kid, I was born into a situation where my parents divorced when I was around 6 years old. I am male and I have a sister who is about a year older than me. Shortly after my parents split and officially divorced, my mother (who my sister and I were living with) found out that she had cancer. As a result, my mother moved us with her ab...

Hi guys ..im new here and i really need your help,anyone that can give a best advice about me.I really want to do vlogging but the thing is im not really a person that is normal like others,i am person with lots of issues and mistakes ..and it bothers me everyday,im afraid t show my self because of like i said im not a perfect person,i really like to do vlog because it makes happy.Hope you guys be...

I have a 3-year-old male cat, and I'm considering getting him a companion. I'm away from the house a lot because of my job, and he doesn't like being alone. When I am home, I give him love and attention, but lately he's become bored and scratching up the furniture. It was suggested by some friends of mine that I should get another cat, but when I did that, the two didn't g...

Hi. I'm wondering if you could help me interpret a dream. First, I would like to say that I am terrified of dentists. The last time I went to a dentist was when I was a kid. I had a very traumatic experience and didn't go back since. This is relevant to my dream. I don't remember all the details, but I recall sitting in a dentist's chair, and the dentist is talking to me. He...

Hey, there. I need some advice for my dad, who is struggling from separation from my mom and supporting us. I am currently a community college student who is being taken care of by my parents since I only make $15 an hour. The problem is that ever since my dad separated from my mom, he is still having to pay most of our house bills and his kids' education. My mom, sibling, and I are living i...

I live with my mother in the family home. My father wasn't there when I was growing up. My siblings are gone away to live and work abroad. One of my siblings has plans to come home on holidays this summer. My mom knew this and she was looking forward to the visit. She was cleaning the spare room for months. It's an older house and there is some damp and some jobs to do on the ho...

I grew up in what we'll refer to as town 'A'. It is a small place, and aside from going to school and joining the workforce here, I had no desire to stick around. Many years ago I moved to town B, and spent a good chunk of my young adulthood there. I gradually made friends there, found areas I liked to go to, and had my longest-lasting job thus far. It wasn't all roses, b...

My mil is sensitive , caring , lovely Etc , all the reasons why it’s complicated. Without even knowing or noticing why , she somehow creates such anxiety. She’s 2 different people. Perhaps all the above when things go her way. But then she has always said she can be nasty If she’s wronged , and that she’s not forgiving. Examples- i recently had major surgery. On the build up , I’m th...

I'm on here because I honestly want to get my life back on track, but sometimes everything just seems to fall apart. I think I'm just looking for someone/something to keep me grounded in reality, and not drifting off into my own thoughts and emotions. I know people are going to say "why don't you tell someone", "why don't you get a therapist" and my reply i...

My ex continues to spread false accusations of abuse towards my youngest child. She is now accusing me of sexually abusing my child, which is completely false and ridiculous. She has continued to throw false allegations at me for the past 4 years. I’ve done nothing wrong, EVER. Why does she get to continue lying about me and spreading these false accusations without being held legally accountabl...

There is this guy that I am very close friends with. We actually used to date for a very short time back in high school, but after breaking up he abstained from dating again due to his conservative and religious beliefs, which is totally cool. The problem I am having with him now is that it has gotten to the point where he often rants about feminism and openly supports gender roles. He would even ...

The title pretty much says it all. Now don't get me wrong, I know God exists. I have seen enough in my life to know with certainty. It isn't just a belief with me. Now on to the debate. I keep seeing quotes, comments, posts on the social media platforms I use that all seem to say the same thing. Faith will get you through. Faith protects you. Etc. The last one I saw that really inf...

I don't know if it's cabin fever or the lack of friendships but I find myself thinking of the past too often. The what if? And shoulda coulda woulda. Usually when I speak on it, people say it's normal and to move on. I do and for a while I do well, but then it creeps up like roaches in a dumpster in the back of a buffet restaurant. It doesn't just cross my mind it will take ove...

I used to very shy with no friends. I got over this, and now have more circles of friends than I can manage. One circle of friends has people that live in a town two bus-rides away. I met them when another friend used to have free petrol as part of his job and kindly drove us all regularly to this town for nights out. Now he's married, but I've kept in touch with the people I met in ...

Hello is anyone else having trouble accessing the chatroom? The green circle just keeps spinning around .. Searching :)...

So I started liking this guy and I think uphe cute, funny, smart but stupid sometimes. And idk if he like me or not. Help me pls....

I have a friend that I've known for about 30 years. He's one of the few friends from that time that has stuck around through my own personal problems. He makes money by selling a particular product (not drugs) that was lucrative in the 90s but has fallen significantly since. He was a caretaker for an elderly gentleman, a WWII vet, who died last year (not from COVID). Because of the d...

Would allowing my 15-year-old daughter to visit her mom who will be in jail for 7 months for check fraud be a bad idea even if they have a good relationship since then she will see the inside of a jail and prisoners? Not to mention her mom in a jumpsuit. My daughter would like to go and seems enthusiastic and my wife says bring her if she wants but I’m not sure Actually my daughter does n...

Hello, Background info for context on my mental state Tw; bullying, Molestation, Suicidal thoughts My name is Dylon and I need really bad help. I have been trying to see if I have social anxiety because I have very bad symptoms of SAD. I have been bullied since 2nd grade and was sometimes treated with disdain in my household. I would tell my mom about my bullying and she would just say th...

So basically I've hit an age where you start to realise you're a proper adult now and with lockdown so on coinciding with some bad times personally it's started to make me harp back to when I was 21 so on with world in front of me and in a good state. Now however I have a child who I am no longer with the mother, a series of failed relationships, poor habits like smoking and poor...

So it’s a bit of a complicated story, but two years ago I was a part of a conservation organization doing backcountry trail work. It’s a five month, government funded program and it was a relatively small crew. I had to leave the season about a month in because family issues were taking over my mind and heart and I couldn’t be out in the wilderness with no way to contact them for days. I lef...

I do not even know where to start, the situation is so sad, and I am ashamed of myself, I cannot approach anyone and ask for help, and here to be my last chance to try on this forum. I am a married woman; I work in a kindergarten and have a ten-year-old son and a husband. We do not live in a rich level as many of us; however, I can say that we live in poor conditions, my husband and I have small w...

I was doing my work and when I looked up I saw the girl i liked looking at me & smiling then she looked down at my collarbone while smiling. then she looked up at my face again and she was still smiling so I looked away. Then later when I was talking to one of my friend & I couldn't really hear him cause I had my headphones on & he said jacob did you hear what I said & i said ...

Please bear with me, if this thread gets quite long :-) I know that there are many people who are probably worse off than me, and maybe I shouldn´t complain - but right now the sum of all my challenges are just slowly getting a bit too much for me. Let me explain what I mean. For your info, I am 46 years old now: 1) I have a very close connection to my mother. However she is - if not termin...

Hi all Maybe my problem is not really that big a problem in many peoples eyes, but nonetheless it sometimes really bothers me and it would be great with some input. When I was younger and when my grandmother was still alive, there used to be a yearly gathering at her house, around the time of her birthday, where the entire family on my mothers side would be gathered from noon until late even...

Hello… so i’ve always had very severe anxiety for as long as i can remember and it’s basically ruining my life at this point. I see a therapist and i’m being evaluated for a mood disorder diagnosis (bipolar 2 seems most likely). I said something really stupid that i didn’t mean and seriously regret but my mother is a bit of a narcissist and i don’t think there’s any way i can conv...

I have a friend who, since getting into a relationship (7years ago) has slowly disappeared. It would start with not answering messages or agreeing to meet us. She would claim that her phone was playing up, or she had to delete the messaging app for storage space etc. This has gone on for probably at kesst 5 years so she has had a new phone in that time, and also uses it for work purposes s...

I don't really have anywhere else to put this, as I tried telling my friend and she said: "well that's bad but my dad is worse" and I have nowhere else to turn. I really need advice so any would be appreciated (sorry for grammar mistakes it's late at night and I'm tired): So my dad has bipolar and used to take medicine until I was about 7. Something happened and he...

Hi all. My name is Rose. I have finally come to terms with the fact that my family of Origin is toxic. My dad is a supreme narcissist and prescription drug addict/abuser, my mother enables him and does deal with some depression, and my sister is just downright mean and vicious. I am the scapegoat. Father: always been abusive. made me into the person who took care of him rather than the other wa...

I don’t even know how to start. Maybe from the beginning but it got that that point that I really don’t know where it all started. Basically I have been in tons of tinder and bumble dates. Most of them become my friends. Some of them I hook up and a few of them I have sex with. So in January I went on one and we got along we kissed but I wasn’t feeling it. In February I went to another it wa...

Ok so My friend wrote this on her Twitter page that said Always in between wanting to post a lot on social media & wanting to delete all socials & be like that person you went to school with that you think of randomly & hope they’re doing well....

I have suffered with depression and anxiety for a long time. It has affected me very badly and caused me not to be able to think logically about things. At the moment I am having a bad time in work and I feel like everyone hates me there and I don't belong there. These feelings have made me all confused and I feel I am making a lot of bad decisions. When a work colleague asked me to join ...

I have always struggled in relationships and just people in general, I have severe PTSD due to assault and it is has heavily affected everything. I havent dated in 2 years as my last relationship he called me frigid. I am 20 next years and still a virgin. I probably make no sense but go with me on this. I have tried to find someone who is understanding and not for pity and whats me for me and not ...

I'm pregnant with my ex's baby. He left me for someone else so things weren't great but now were civil. What's confusing me is that on two different occasions he has asked if I plan to have any more children. I asked him why and he claims he was just wondering but I feel theres more to it than that. He has also started asking personal questions about the pregnancy like whethe...

So where to begin really? •I’m 29 years old •I’m from a wealthy and respected family •My family is stable – no real problems •I have no friends – lost many friends due to my high alcohol consumption •I never had a loving relationships – Dated only 2 girls in high school and that’s it. •Lost my virginity with a prostitute •I have been masturbating a lot everyday f...

My parents are due to celebrate a big anniversary. They are both in their 80's My sister has planned to go away to a country on the UK's Covid warning list which means she should by law quarantine for 14 days on her return. However she is planning to come to my parents party within a week of her return. She says they will get a private test and then come along. I have issues wit...

Hi, this is very embarrassing but I really need advice. My husband and I have been together for 26 years and married for 17. About 4-5 years ago my husband picked up a nasty habit and it’s driving me crazy that I’m starting to dislike him. I’ve tried ignoring it but it’s getting worse and worse and last year my kids even mentioned it saying it’s irritating and nasty to them too. He has s...

Ok, so I'm a single male bachelor, in my early-50's, good-looking, in good health, and quite wealthy. I want to find a young woman who would like to travel and see the world (probably most women would fit this description, no?) with me paying all the expenses (sounds great, right?). Will there be romance? Maybe, but only if we both want it. The problem is, I am only interested in wome...

The One Thing I Have Been Trying To Understand All My Life Is My Mother Has Ruined Everything In Entire Life Example My Marriage My Birthdays My Prom Etc... And The Only Thing I Can Come Up With Is That She Takes The Meaning Of Being A Narcisist To A Whole Different Level Believe Me. She Goes Out Of Her Way To Make Me Look Bad In Front Of People To Put Me Down Every Chance She Gets To Blame Me For...

I need advice about changing my life. I have been a housewife for years and my kids have left home years ago. I want to work but I am not very brainy and I have only worked wit kids in the past and done cleaning jobs. I don't want to really work with kids again because im 5O in a few months and feel I have raised my own 3 and want to do something different. im in a rut at the moment and all I...

My son is getting married later this year. I get on well with his fiancee. However I feel excluded from things to do with the wedding. There was a big weekend when she went dress shopping with her friends and then again to make the final choice. She then took her mother along to see the dress and again for the second fitting. There were pictures on FB of them celebrating with fizz and general...

Am I being irrational? I have a twin sister. We are best friends however she never really supports me when I am going through things. It's like, if I'm going right, she chooses to go left every time. Am I being unreasonable and just putting my frustration on her because I am in denial? Years ago, I was going through some issues with my then boyfriend. I'd go to her to rant be...

I met a person online, i will call this person J, we bounded fast. Tho J and i argue really bad over nothing. When we fight, J becomes really aggressive, he calls me names, he tells me that i cant remember what he said to me and that i have a memory of a fish. He basically knows exactly what to say to me that will hurt me. During this fight when i kept on closing the call because i didnt wanna tal...

I was playing Minecraft and just having a good time with my friends, and one of their brothers my friends were from 22-26 and the guys brother is 17 then this person joined, don't know how, but they said they were 13 and they all just bullied her and it was really messed up it was 5 of them doing it so i felt kinda nervous about speaking up, mostly because i didn't know/barely knew a...

I just graduated from high school and I still want to maintain my friendship with my school friends. I have been catching up with them but they don't invite me to their parties. They take drugs at their parties and they know I don't do drugs. I'm actually fine with others taking drugs because I don't have to take them myself. I texted them asking why they don't invite ...

Am I wrong? Am I selfish? I don't know how to make this right... I don't think it will be right. Last year my friend was dx with stage 3 cancer. The odds are stacked against her. She lives a thousand miles away and her dream was to come visit me. Now we have only been in touch via text past few years with my family life being unstable and her cancer dx. But I want to see her a...

Hi guys, This is not a relationship or dating question I’m kindly ask you for advice because it’s been 6 months deciding which path should I take and as of today I’m still undecided. Giving me your advice would be a big help. So I just recently became an Accountant last May and I’m now working at a job which I don’t really like. The benefit really doesn’t outweigh the cost an...

I was the only family member that was not invited to my nephew's wedding. Other relatives were invited. I am upset and feel left out, as if the family is ousting me. ...

It's hard to know where to start. I am 29 years old. It looks like I have a lot of my life together, but I am just hanging on by a thread. I am someone who has always been alone. I have friends and family, but never any type of romantic relationship. I have always wanted one, but don't feel deserving - not for any particular reason, but just by virtue of being me. I don't kn...

Hello everyone, So I have been married for a little bit over a year now, and I am expecting. I never really had a good relationship with my in laws. They think my husband is an angle/god and even his cousins agree that they treat and talk about him like he is a god. So obviously ever since I came into his life I was never good enough for him. They always talked about me and my parents; in fact, t...

I was invited to my boyfriend's friend's fiance's bridal shower. Just me. Not him. I suffer from social anxiety (am trying my best to get treated) and very much do not want to go to this bridal shower ESPECIALLY because it was only me who was invited (which is expected - bridal showers are usually just women). When I first got the invite I had a pretty bad panic attack over being i...

Hey y'all so here's my problem, a while ago I met a girl through her lovely twin sister who hoped we would become friends as well. At first we were cool and all, noticed she was slightly perverted, like to talk to me and post pictures revealing some of her chest and just fetishised men dressing as women a lot. Yet it was nothing related to me so I let my opinions settle in my gut. ...

I ran into a coworker while walking near work on my lunch break. I was texting with someone and smiling while looking at my phone. When I looked up I saw him looking at me and smiling and seemingly happy to see me, but as soon as I looked up he looked away and completely avoided me and avoided eye contact. He could not have tried harder to not look at me at that point. This is someone I ha...

I am in need of someone to talk to about everything. I've been diagnosed with Anxiety, Depression, ADHD and Bipolar Disorder. I am 31 years old and 8 months pregnant as well as trying to remodify a custody agreement in order to get my 8 year old daughter home. I also help take care of both my parents who have heart failure and other diseases. I am currently unemployed and living at home wit...

My older online friend and i met through a game.After i broke up with my ex (long story but it had to with my friendship with this person) 1 day or 2 later he confessed to me and insisted trying giving him a chance, even though i rejected him and explained the reason to him. So he kept telling me cheesy things(which i hate) and how special i am to him and he somehow wanted me to tell him the same ...

This is going to be a heavy read, and should probably have some warnings posted. Not sure how to do that, so just giving fair warning that this will cover several triggering topics. So to anyone that decides to wade in anyway, thank you. We were notified last week that our friend and coworker, Daniel Salcido, had been involved in a murder-suicide, and their 2yo son was missing. They hav...