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I regret touching my cousin

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It's been almost 10 years since I've spoken with her, the last time being when I catfished her after planning a meetup where I came onto her. Before that, almost every encounter I had with her involved me groping her. I want to reconnect and apologize but I'm afraid she'll react negatively and/or expose our past. Help?

I regret touching my cousin

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DUPLICATE MESSAGE TO ALL 6 OF YOU CURRENTLY 'SEATED IN THE WAITING-ROOM', i.e.: Lost Racoon Oblivion Gooober TheColdCrystal Ayan: Hi guys, Apologies for the delay but regular respondents are obviously very thin on the ground at the moment, plus, this is an old fashioned forum, meaning, you're supposed to be chatting or giving your thoughts and opinions to those waiting alongside you (if you please/feel up to it)? Otherwise, I'm afraid I won't be available til Wednesday now. Sorry... think it's because it's August/holiday season.

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I regret touching my cousin

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Man up bloke & go talk to her. If she had an issue with you & your behaviour, she'd have done something about it after 10 long years.

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You did her really dirty and owe her an apology BIG TIME. Be an adult and buy her something nice and make contact. Family is all you got in the end and thats about it.

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Hi Goober, "Be an adult and buy her something nice and make contact. " Agree! Say it with flowers (and a hundred sorrys means as huge and stunning a bouquet as you can afford - or as you can't afford NOT to afford) (ask for the florist, briefl describe the situation - they know what says whatever you want to say, best). You could ask them to write a card that says something like, 'Having matured, now looking back - I realise I owe you a huge apology and would prefer to do it properly, to your face (if you're agreeable, of course?)'. Why has it taken you 10 long years, though? And what was the catalyst to your epiphany? And WHY did you catfish her? I think knowing those things will make formulating the best approach and raprochement, a lot easier.

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