Replaced

Ever experienced losing a good friend? People change; for the good or worse. After many sleepless sunday nights ( book-in days) I spent thinking and can only drive down to one solid conclusion. I have been replaced. Replaced by cooler and richer people to whom you call friends. Replaced by the people more relevant to your current lifestyle. I am not sure if you can even remember what we have been through as best buds for the past 8 years. I can't even look at you in the eyes now and talk to you straight unlike in the past when we can talk about anything under the stars. Unlike in the past when we can thrash talk all-day long without having to have any meaning out of the conversation and never get bored of doing so. Things are so awkward now that we are only talking because we are obliged to do so. Where is that one friend whom I can solely trust and confide my problems and joy in? Feeling so empty and naked now I soon realize that I have only myself to blame. I'm the sort of person who rather have a few but close friends rather than many friends but all or most will desert you during rainy days. Staring back somehow I think this is my fault. My fault for not falling under the same category of the friends you make nowadays. Maybe I'm the only one who hasn't changed when the whole world has already left me behind. Maybe this is nature's way of saying good bye. I am just too physically exhausted in thinking of ways to salvage our friendship anymore.

We all have lost good friends. I used to have a very good friend, but we're not friends anymore. WHY? Well, the fact that she took me for granted. But I learned that I don't need a friend like her because if that's how she is going to be, then I can do better for myself. A real friend would never forget you or replace you. And trust me, I know how bad it hurts when you're being replaced, but that just means that the person doesn't see how good of a friend you are, so there is no point of hurting over it. There are so many people out there looking for a friend. You can find one. :) Don't give up.

I still think of my lost friend. but she was going through this relationship thing and all she would talk about was the 2 of them. I put up with it for felt like 6 months until I told her to stop I was getting depressed. she continued, ringing me all hours, evertime we met up it would be about him.... anyway I broke it off with her. Pulled away, she hates me today and is now friends with my sister,,,,it's been like 10 yrs and I still think of her. Anyway I realise friends are there for you at certain times in your life. with change comes a need for different people and ideas. Maybe you were the freind he needed then, but now needs friends for the person he is today