5 minutes

me and my husband have been together almost 5 years and of course the sex was good in the beginning but after i had our two children it has slowly went down well we still have alot of sex but it dosent last very long 5-7 min max and i just dont understand it it used to be 30- 45 min at the least. he "gets his" and stops says that he cant keep going ... what can i do to fix this and how can i tell him thats its bothering me without hurting his ego .. i would male and female perspectives .. thank you

I'm 19 going on 20 so I don't have too much experience. But in my relationship my guy usually only lasts 5 minutes, and when he is finished everything just stops even if I'm not done! It is very frustrating for me. I was worried like you are. But eventually I had to talk to him about it. It wasn't easy and it's pretty hard to stop them from getting butt hurt about it. Just talk to him about it. I know it's an uncomfortable subject but maybe you two can find a solution. Maybe something that can help him last longer...? I hope this helps.