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Confused about ex girlfriend

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So I have been seeing this guy for a while now who has an ex gf that he is best friends with. She is now a lesbian so I shouldnt be worried but I am. He talks about her all the time and it bugs me because I don't care. I hate it when he talks about her. She has been away for several months now but they skype for hours. He even house sits for her mother and expects me to stay with him there in her house. I'm worried that when she gets back it's going to ruin our relationship. He will sound less time with me because he will be spending time with her. I don't care to get to know her because I met her briefly once and she told him she didn't like me and to stay away from me when she doesn't even know me. I don't know what to do. I try to just ignore it but it's bothering me more and more. I'm jealous of her or worried about them hanging out cause she is a lesbian but it's an awkward situation. Any advice?

Confused about ex girlfriend

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Ex-gf.Check. homosexual.Check. best friend.check. ur story has so many shades together ,seems you in total trouble sweety.This bf of yours is either still in awe of his Ex or he is really a great best friend.Inn both ways,you are being a lil side-kicked! my question wd be does ur Bf know dat his "Ex-Gf -turned-bestie" hates you! if no,its high tym to tell him that n be vocal about ur rights on him.endless Skype-ing,talking,remembering,house-sitting totally reflects his concern abt her ex-lady!You should open up n clearly state ur guy that dis is so not happening!you should be given the prime tym now,you should spend more time rather than him longin and cravin about his Bestie!M sure,he wil get it!!afterall you are his Love right now!! n if he knows-it-all & still is behavin dis way,its tym for some action gal.make him jelous,make him long for you,show your gal power,U r straight and Hot enough to make your man under control.so just cheer up and kick any duckling from takin away ur prince! All the Best!

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