Mentally getting depressed

One fine day one unmarried person who is 40 yrs came into my life with lots of love, He is good person of this world, so my family agreed for our marriage also, So before marriage itself we had relation with each other, thinking that we will be marrying very soon, But My self 35 yrs widow last my husband in the age of 23, having now 12 yrs old son, So decided not to marry till these years.now i feel to marry this person. When he said to his mother that he is going to marry 35 yrs widow having 11 yrs old son, she refused for our marriage, she started threatening to kill herself if he marries me, by that this person is afraid that he may loose his mother & he loves his mother a lot

well beena firstly i totally respect you that u hv taken a good decision to live your life well,whatever his mom is sayin is all because a social taboo,but if your feelings are true,you n him should sit and try to make his mom understand that he is quite in the age where he needs somebdy to spend his entire life & alll thats important is love and bonding which he has with you.and why dont you try to meet her,try to get her point out and make her easy abt the thing.Love can defeat all troubles.& m sure you guys can do it! Do luck beena.:)