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My boyfriend and I need help

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I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. I just graduated from college and there is a certification program 2.5 hours away from where I live and it is near my parents' house. My boyfriend and my parents do not get along what so ever and in order for me to attend the program I would have to move in with them. My boyfriend is not willing to make the move because he doesn't want to leave his dead end job nor his family and support system behind. He is also not willing to do a long distance relationship since he has had 5 fail on him. I want to find a way to compromise with him but nothing seems to work. Is there any way for us to compromise?

My boyfriend and I need help

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Hey Kimi,urs is really a fix! see both your course & his job is important !u can stay over your parents place and come back to your Bf while d weekends! He can come ova near your parent's place and u can spend the day somewhere oder dan u parent's home! i knw dis sounds difficult but if its love,you can do it!

My boyfriend and I need help

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Yes, two years is hard to throw away, your program shouldn't be longer than that I hope, then you can move back to him. It's not that bad of a drive, maybe he would be willing to switch off visiting on breaks and weekends and meet in the middle sometimes. Maybe find a mutual friend to stay with in your town rather than the parents place. Hotels can be really fun and the internet makes the distance seem much smaller too. Texting and phone calls work too. Then work with the stuff that seem to do best for you both. Best of luck to you both.

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