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well I broke up wit my ex two days ago of almost theee years but while my break I've been talkin to my best friend about the situation she went through a bad break up and we've been kinda catching feelings for each other more thn just best friends I don't know wht to do either to wait for my ex till she comes back around or just jump into a relationship wit my best friend we get along very well but idk wht to do

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Listen to your heart - DHT

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lol@poppycoock. this happened to me bro. i abide by jdepps "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second." if you do tell her that you don't want to lose her as a friend. friendships make relationships stronger and imo better. thats all anyone wants. to be in love with their best friend.

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thanks to responding I just got off the phone wit my best friend and just told her I broke up wit my ex she didnt know until now so she asks me wht am I goin to do now so she really has feelings for me and I have feelings for her she was my high school crush and we've been friends since high school it's been almost 15 yrs tht we know each other very well but I'm worried bout gettin into a serious relationship wit her cause she knows my past so I don't want there to b a trust issue but at the same time I fell in love wit my ex and she has a almost three yr old I got attached to very much treated her like he was my own since her baby daddy isn't around so I'm stuck my ex didn't do her role as my girlfriend I just learned to deal wit her and somehow I fell in love wit her we were recently talkin bout gettin engaged and I was excited about cause I'm tired of messing around my ex is one of thm girls tht didn't offer anything no affection couldn't cook she was very clean but I felt like I was In a relationship wit a teenager cause I had to talk bout wht has to b done in a relationship I hated it but learned to deal wit her bs and stuck wit it in other hands my best friend she's good wit everything independent doesn't have her life settled but trying the problem is she knows my past how I use to b messing around so I don't want it to b a trust issue thts my main concern she knows my past and her past relationships havent helped either so I think trust is goin to b a problem yeah yeah but u know u talk so bad bout ur ex so don't wait for her easy said thn done I'm so attached to her and her child it's hard to let go we have broken up mayb three times an we just end up back together so I told her this was the last time I would give her so I don't know either stick to my word or just call my ex and work it out im in love wit two females for different reasons damn wht to do wht to do

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