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I've never done this so here it goes. I've been dating a girl for 3 months and then about a month ago we broke up. Now we don't have a lot of contact except we have a group in class. We both lost our virginty to each other. The problem is I'm not over her but I've been keeping my mouth shut about it. But the other day she was asking a friend of mine if I have been talking shit about her and she said no. After that she just got angry and then went on singing that song by Taylor swift 'never ever getting back together'. And she got angry when she asked my Best friends girl if my best friend hated her guts and she said yes. So the ultimate question is, is she over me, is it possible to get back together, and if so should I take that chance. Thanks for listening

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It's often said that the opposite of love is indifference, not hate. But I don't think hate makes a very good basis for a relationship. It sounds as if she is upset because she thinks you've been dissing her behind her back. If that's not true, then maybe you should have a chat with her and try to reassure her. If you've said something that has been twisted along the way, then sort it out. If you have said something hurtful, or made public what should have been kept private, then apologise. She probably won't fall into your arms, but she might come round eventually. I think you need to deal with the conflict before you will be able to assess whether there is any chance of getting back together. Sort it out, let things settle for a while, be nice to her, and then maybe risk a move on her. Or maybe she will tell a mutual friend how she feels. Whichever way it goes, you both have something special to remember the relationship by for the rest of your lives, so if it is over, make it a good ending, not a bitter one. Sky

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