Please please help me its urgent things seem to fall apart

I asked the chick i liked quite a few days back to which she said "No at the moment". i decided to move on and stay aloof. That’s when she gave me a mad chase and did weird stuff and kept telling me that she wanted to meet. Today accidentally i was typing "totally in love with you" to my sister (as it was her wedding) i typed to the chic i liked. to which she replied "batting eyelashes". But i cleared the air that "glad you realised it was a joke" she replied "Aah *phew*". i then said "it was for someone else but got to a wrong window" she asked me "so you wrote love you in a wrong window?" i said yes. "She just replied "AAH :)" I kind of love her. but this thing was actually meant for my sister(only as a part of a continuing convo. Also she just wrote on her BBM "Yes, and the task is to play it uber nonchalant(careless,ignorant) & cool. #Newguytricks" Later, I told her that although accidentally, I think its good that the love messaged reached her and that I mean it now and this time its meant for you and you alone. She replied saying *blushing* She starts addressing me "baby" suddenly again. However, for a couple of days she hasnt replied to any texts i sent, may be because she was out of town. But even today she didnt reply? Yesterday, I had asked her to meet, she replied that “I wouldn’t say no, but I get done from event at 11pm, so how do we do this”. We eventually met and I dropped her back home. She also got a friend along who is her work colleage as they both were at the event. I ended up having more fun with her friend than with the chick I like because The chick I like hardly talked or was always on the phone. Just before dropping home she says, “My friends coming home because we have lots of work to do as I am going out of town, you come home too, otherwise I’ll feel bad that I used you as a driver.” I felt really hurt. I was below the building dropping her and I said that I’ll go home all she said was “Okay your call, because You have work to do too and I cannot spend time with you per se” and I left. Later I just messaged saying happy journey, she replies saying “Thank you baby”. But when we move forward in the conversation she is very cold and dry. Also before boarding her flight I said I will miss you. She replied saying “Why will you miss me? I am going only for 4 days. See ya once I am back” Suddenly she'll address me as baby as a one off and then be dry and cold. She gave me a good chase (that is what i assumed). She showed signs that she still liked me. But when i extended the olive branch and met her as a friend she acts weird by constantly hugging me etc. She had gone out of town from where i asked her to get me something which she did get. She told me to pick it up in the evening, but later says "I might go to xyz place, not sure yet, but i want to see this ABC movie, so confused". i just said "suggest we should go for xyz" she said lets go for the movie. but as i was busy the plan didnt happen. So i asked her if i could pick the thing up in the evening she said yes come fast but I am sleepy. so i suggested that she went to sleep and I could pick it up tomorrow. She said no come today it will get spoilt and stuff and i will be up till you come and stuff and also she had to go somewhere for a movie or at a friends place, however the next day she didn’t go anywhere but the guy who earlier was hitting on her went over.. She waited for me to come and reach and picked it up. Chatted for a few moments where she told me that the place where she went everyone kept pestering her about marrying and that she was waiting for the right person before she ties the knot. Also a few days earlier we decided that we two would go for a move however when we went for it she called her other two very close guy friends also. Also, earlier when things were okay she would address me as "Baby" which she doesnt use that loosely. Now when things are weird she stopped using it. What is she trying to do by confusing me? Is she really there or not. Did she not like the fact that I was having better time talking to her friend than her and hence she insulted me that way or does she just doesn’t give a **** about me. I am very confused as to what she wants out of this. Because she said NO when I had ASKED HER OUT

hi it sounds to me as though shes unsure of what she wants herself, it sounds as though those around her are expecting her to settle into a serious relationship that shes not ready to do. i think she possibly does like you, but maybe not want an exclusive relationship if that makes sense? i hope you find stability soon