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I met this guy 3 years ago, and we started dating..this whole story is going to sound so stupid and everyone reading it is gonna be like ''are you stupid, you should know what to do!!!'' i know what to do, i just can't do it!!!.. anyways on with my story we dated and he's cheated on me religiously, but he lied right through his teeth so finally one day i had enough...i decided to move cities this was almost 3 years into it!..i packed up everything and literally hopped on the next bus out.....well my plan back fired i ended up talking to him again and he literally, dropped everything and followed me! ..now we are both living in a different city I am attending school trying to make new friends start fresh ...i thought well if hes removed from the enviroment we WERE in he would change. Until now, he has a lock on his cell phone won't let me see his facebook...an when he does he will just skim through it, he talks to this girl out here A LOT..and told me he wouldnt hook up with her cause she has a man(nice right)... ive already moved alll the way out here, i don't know how to just pick up and leave ( I told you this would sound stupid) its easier said then done, I need some advice or something..I feel so angry at him all the time like when you assume their cheating or talking to somebody online or texting. I don't trust him, nor should I but this is unhealthy...somebody help :/

Help me!!!

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i think you guys should sit down and have a serious talk about your relationship. it seems like you really want to be with him and he wants to be with you,but you have to ask yourself this question: why does he constantly cheat on me? why?? it seems like he wants more attention from you like when you say he mentions the "pretty girls" he see when he's out he's telling you this to make you jelous he might not see any pretty girls he just telling YOU this to make you want to be around him more. he wants your undivided attention but you need to take control woman! lol. make him understand that you have days where you just want to hang out with your friends to enjoy yourself. but you also should atleast talk to him at the end of the day discuss whats going on. you said you are going to school is he supporting you? if he's not then honestly drop him!! get your education cause at the end of the day you dont need to be stressing over a guy that doesnt even support you or encourage you! if all else fales give it a break get away from him for a while and see how you feel afterwards if you just cant live without him and he feels the same try to make it work honey but if you think you can make it on your on yall can just be close friends. FOCUS on YOURSELF. i dont want you to get hurt. i hope this helped :)

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