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Should I wait or make the "first move", again

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We have been together for over 1 year and have had our ups and downs. We had a fall out a few days ago and I stormed out and haven't spoke since. Times when we have had fall outs I always contacted him in no more than 1 day and always made the first move. This has been the longest we have not spoken. I am sick of doing all the running to him and he sometimes plays silly mind games, nothing upsetting or anything but don't understand why. I was to meet him when he got home that night as I had to pick something up from his house, however heard nothing from him that evening and text him a few hours later to see was he home, no response. 2 days passed and couldn't understand so I called to him (livid of course). He was all welcoming and seemed shocked when I made an issue out it. His phone broke and couldn't contact me, I didn't know and couldn't understand why he couldn't call to me with the things I needed and explain as I only live 5 mins away. I do all the running to him and he presumed I was going to call that evening but he didn't make contact until I went down to him again, to see was all ok and to see what the issue was that he didn't contact me. It's been 3 days now and I really miss him. I want him to take ownership of this and understand I am sick of doing this and he needs to do the work too. He hasn't contacted me, but I know he is sitting it out like me. but then again this is the longest ever and I don't know does he think we maybe over because it's not like me and he doesn't know what to say so he has let it be. I just want him to acknowledge it's 50/50. Should I call to him and let him know I am serious and no games and either he is in or out??

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