My so called lover / sex partner

Last week in june 2012 we meet in school(5week program 4 driving). He was so attractd to me. was too young 4 me. I'm abt 20yrs older or so. I don't look my age at all. I enjoy my life. Love 2 laugh and somewhat free spirited. He fed me and made sure I was gud.than 1wk later webecame intimate.we thought it was a sex thing and then he wantd to drivin as partners on truck and we basically lived 2gether 4 2months. He left me for 2 months and came back in my life. We courted over phone and scene each other for abt 3 mths. He lost his mother 2nd mth of our long distant relationship. He had 2 pay all funeral cost byhimself. He was hurt & stress ks shots of liquor.now I liv in his homtown.doesn't want 2 move in.he just wants sssex I luv him he don't luv me he says it was just a f**k thing I changd my number.he told me he's not ready for a relationship. Eventhouhg we pland to b 2gether. He said a lot has changd & he though he would b ready but he's not what shlould I doN

he just scare and confuse what to do after the lost of his mother. he just don want you to be hurt. you either wait for him till his finance and his confident come back or you could move on.it hard for him went he alone. I think you already know what to do!!!