Is he mad at me for something? Can I win him back

Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some advice here. I met a guy in January of this year, and he really really liked me. So much that I actually believed I'm the most beautiful woman on this earth, it felt good. I had dismissed him at first but he was persistent. and even though we hadn't been seeing each other for that long, he could anything for me, without me even asking, he would offer, he was so caring and all this was new to me, I have never been treated like this before by a man, this was a very welcome change. After a while though he had to leave the country for busines but he was coming back in about 10 days so that was no big deal because we skyped, but then before he came back I also had to leave the country abruptly but I thought I would be coming back very soon before he left for another business trip, I kept on hoping I would be back before he left again and he was praying for that too, where I had gone I needed money urgently and I had no where to turn I told him I was having problems and he offered me the money, it was a lot of money too, and he gave it to me without any questions whatsover, this made me cry with happiness because how many people do that for a girl they have known for a month, but he did, and we kept on communicating by phone everyday, due to unforeseen circumstances I couldn't get back before he left for another business trip, but two days before he left for that trip he suddenly stopped answering my calls, my text messages or emails, and even though I have emailed a couple of times he won't reply my mails, he is far away in the dessert but I'm very sure he receives my emails but he doesn't reply them. I'm trying to stay positive, hoping that he will contact me eventually but sometimes fear overtakes me for just a moment and it's scary. It's been a month now since I last talked to him. Also it's worth to mention that his divorce was finalised in Jan. He is such a great guy I don't wanna lose him and I found that I fell in love with him easily, very easily. So now I have the love for him and the dread for not hearing from him and thus the fear. What do I do because I feel I have written all I can in the emails to him and without one reply I don't think I can write anymore,I have run out of what to say, I don't know what went wrong or if anything went wrong.Please help, what do I do? Any kind of advice will be very welcome. Thank you.

Hi KATYM22 I read your message with interest. two things came to mind. The first being, the intensity of the relationship at such an early stage tends to make men flea after a while it becomes to much and they can't handle it. You were probably a very handy emotional plaster whilst he was going through an emotional time. ie Divorce. You didn't know enough about him and how he deals with disappointment, sadness. pain. It is so easily to get swept in by the honeymoon period. If he was all that he presented himself to be to you. Do you honestly think his wife would have divorced him. The beginning of a relationship is the seduction process. The real telling is a year or so on wards. Also the fact that you borrowed a large amount of money from him so soon after having recently met, may have lead him to believe you are some sort of money scammer. Also you were claiming to be in and out of the country and not able to give a definite time of your return. This is all the traits scammers use to get money out of innocent people. It is called the 419 (Scam) I think he feels like his been done and duped and feeling somewhat like a fool and used. He may feel your too dependent and relying on him too heavily. Obviously I don't know him nor yourself but it would be well worth you considering that this is very likely to be the case. i hope that helps. take care satio.

Hi Satio, thank you very much for your advice, it's really good advice, really good thank you. About the money I didn't ask for the money he offered it and just gave it to me, he didn't lend it to me. But the point about me not being definite about my coming back might have been a problem but not from the scam point of view and I explained to him the reasons for my delay, I have never asked him for money. But I understand all you have said and it makes a lot of sense. We were together for a short period of time before he had to leave the country for business but we spent a lot of time together and really enjoyed each other's company. It's all very confusing. I finally chatted with him on skype yesterday night and sent him a voice message asking him to tell me what I did wrong and to tell me if he didn't wanna see me or hear from me again, and if that's what he wanted then I would respct that and leave him alone. He just replied with "hey, what's up? Been very busy, how are you"