Girlfriend "break" trouble

hey so im a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend of over a year recently went on a break with me. I just need someone to talk to about coping with the wait and about how i should proceed in life. She is sort of a complex person emotionally and our situation is kinda weird. there is a lot more to say, id appreciate any help and someone to talk to about this.

I would love to help. Please tell me more about the situation?

thanks for responding. Ok, so heres the story - shes 18 and in highschool and im in college. she has anxiety disorder and is a quite emotional and unstable person. alot of the time we talked about her problems and ive stuck with her through all of it. shes always been a goodie private school girl, and now shes feeling like she needs to just be crazy and be the party girl for a while. shes not ready to grow up and settle down yet. i understand, but the hard thing is, this break has no definite end, like no 2 weeks or 2 months then we get back together. its basically until she feels like shes done being immature. i know shes been with other guys already. its just super hard cuz i love her. she says she loves me too, but is just confused. im scared to get out there and meet someone cuz i might lose her and im scared she will get serious about a guy she sees rather than just the physical stuff she wants. im wondering if i should just forget about her, or stop talking to her all together to make her miss me. idk

Hi!!! I think breaks are an excuse to be able to do what a person wants to with out being held back. Why would ou want to sit back waitin for someone who obviously is not wanting the relationship now. If they really loved you there should be no reason for her to want to take a break. Breaks are for people who want to break up and be single.

i think my next move is to go out there and just have fun, maybe ill meet someone else. i need to start letting go of the hope that we will get back together soon. maybe she will want me back, and if im single at that time, ill go ahead and give it another shot. but if i find someone that i really like, im not gonna take her back. i still think if she matures and gets this stuff out of her system, we can be perfect together. but right now im realizing she isnt right for me if shes going to have to be like this. so do you think it would be bad if we remained friends and hung out and talked? cuz that is our plan. shes makes me so happy, even if im not with her, and i do the same for her. so i dont know if throwing away the friendship is something im willing to do just yet. shes just not mature enough to be tied down at the moment, so hopefully this is the right move

just in case anyone is thinking about responding to this - we officially broke up and it feels good! i finally have a definite answer to my future. were gonna remain friends and all. it was all for the best, thanks for your replies!

I'm so happy it worked out for you, and I believe you made the right choice!(: