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I'm losing hope :(

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Hi, my problem, compared to others', is not that of a big deal. So here we go. Love At First Sight. That'S It. But This Time, With A Conflict. You Know Guys, It Really took Me so Long To Say This to Her. When I Was in First Year, I Started To Love Her. Her Cleverness And Gracefulness Attracts Me the most. Suddenly, She Got A phone And I Got Her digits. When I Was A Sophie, we use Chat Every night. Which really made my admiration To Her Deeper. Then, I text her An "I Love You!", "Really?", She Replied. "Seriously" I Said. Suddenly, She changed The Topic :(. One Time, I Messaged Her, "Can i Ask something?", "Sure!" She Replied. "Just Promise To Answer Between Yes Or No Only," i Said. "Sure!" She Said. "Is There A Chance For us To Be more Than Friends?" I Said. "Ahm. Sorry, My Parents Wants Me To Finish my Studies First, its A No. Sorry :(". I Didn'T Answer, I just Cried. And Cried. Then She messaged me "Seriously, I Loved You, more Than Friends. Goodnight!" I Wiped My Tears. I Smiled. :-). Every night, We chat Like We'Re In A Relationship. Sweet Words, Concerns, Etc. We Used To be Like That For Almost 2 Months. Then I Realized. What Am i Doing? This Will End with What? Tears Again? Because I Pushed myself To A woman Of Paper An Pencil. Then I Stopped texting her. She Sends me Gm'S With #effort</3, #openyourheart, And Quotes That Talks About Leaving Someone. What Should I Do? T_T

I'm losing hope :(

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I had a similar problem but the way I resolved it was not to just out right tell the girl I love, I asked her out then when we were alone I was about to bring it up when she asked me about it and I explained it to her, she took it well. That is where you probably went wrong, you just texted her out of the blue, she didn't even have a chance to get a feel for weather you even liked her at all. You should have started by just asking her out, then told her. But because you didn't do that the only thing I can see happening is nothing good for you, unless you actually take her out and treat her as more than the girl you love, treat her as your love. I know that doesn't make much sense but if you really do love her it will just happen naturally.

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