Love issues

I've been in a relationship with her going on 5 years in dec. I've never told her I love her, until recently. She has told me she loves me for the last 4 years, and I've always denied that I love her. So she would tell me, "I love you" and my response would be, "I don't love you". I was lyin, just afraid to be hurt. Tried to lie to myself. Well recently, she cheated on me and I actually admitted to being in love with her. She tells me she still loves me, and still in love with me. But she was also hurt about the fact that I lied about loving her all that time. Now, I did show her love, just didn't tell her. Well now, she is very distant. Seems to not care as much as she used to. My guess is that she is no longer in love with me. She tells me she is, but I feel differently. Is it just me?

I understand her and your side. But she shouldn't have cheated on you. Some people are afraid to say their in love with their partner because they are afraid of getting hurt. If household her you loved her but never said it then she had no right to cheat. And she probably being distant because she does love you but knows she hurt you and is trying to see if you were lying or not.She probably afraid of you lying again and her getting hurt again.

Lexa, what should I do? Do you think she is still cheating?

You should talk to he and ask her if somethings up. And did she tell you she that she cheated or did you find out on your own? She might not be cheating... she probably probably just thinking if she said she still loves you. Give her some time and a little space & tell her your there for her but your giving her time and space to think.

Lexa, she came out and told me that she cheated on me. We talked about it and she said she felt as if I didn\\\'t care about her because I didn't tell her I loved her. I would always say no, I don't. But she says she is still in love with me. I've tried to breakup with her because I said she may feel confused, but she doesn\\\'t want to breakup with me. She wants to be with me. Is it all in my head?