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Extremely frustrated (both guys and girls)

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Hi all, So there is this guy and we've been casually flirting back and forth for a couple weeks now, and even went on a date last week. Before the date, he was super cute, sending cute messages and things. The date went well, and we ended up back at my place. After all was said and done, he left. Ever since then, sex has been in every conversation, and it really started to bug me. One day, I got mad at him, and told him that I wanted to be treated with respect. He basically brushed it off,saying thanks for letting him know, and we didn't talk for a couple days. Yesterday, we started talking again, and when I tried to express to him why I blew up at him, and tried to explain what I was feeling, he told me that it was a lot of drama, and that he doesn't feel like he was being disrespectful, and that he wasn't at fault. Eventually I just let it go, but I'm still extremely frustrated, and I don't know if I can trust him. I don't know what to do or what to say, because I feel like everything I say just falls on deaf ears. I even flat out told him that all I wanted from him was an apology, and I said it three different times, but yet still nothing. Help! I need advice,

Extremely frustrated (both guys and girls)

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Completely STOP TALKING TO HIM. The cold shoulder, he obviously does not want or maybe even know what a relationship is and if he isn't willing to listen and to see your POV, then why even trying to have ANY kind of future with him? Might as well spend that time you would be spending on him( which would be alot), and use it to find someone else who is worth it and will try. Plus with guys like that who are only in it for the sex, will always be about the sex and when they feel you've become completely fed up and realize it, they dump you making you feel like you've hit ground zero. Darling, its sooooooo a kid's game.

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