Please help clear my mind. Should I visit a prostitute for my sexual need?

Hi, Lately, i feel a very urgent need to be with a woman and i have been contemplating of visiting a prostitute for long time now. But i feel like it would be a mistake if i go to a prostitute (not in terms of legality but in terms of ethics/morality). i am worried that this would haunt me in future when i get a wife. right now i am 24. This thinking is bugging me so much that i remain worried quite a lot of time. I couldn't bring myself into controlling my sex needs and this is driving me crazy. I would really be glad if someone could help me clear my mind

Hello there, It is natural to feel intense sexual urges, especially being a young man. What it comes down to is what consequences you might have to face after that decision. If you do decide to turn to a prostitute, is it worth a potential STI, or future guilt. IT really has not effect on your future relationships unless you keep contact with this prostitute (which is unlikely) or if you contract some sort of STI. I would suggest getting tested after just to be safe. There are also other ways to fuffill sexual needs. Masterbation and porn are two other options. Perhaps gaining a "friend with benefits", someone you trust. This may also conflict with your religion (morality). Would this act go against your upbringing, your values, or morals? I personally would suggest waiting and trying to find someone. Online dating is also a possibility. (you just need to be sure you are safe and smart about it) There is no shame in wanting sex. Just be smart and safe about it.

Agreed! Being safe has to be your number one priority. Whether or not you can live with your decision ethically is another question. Here is my question: What happened to getting a girl friend the old fashion way? I am not judging you, just asking. Either way, enjoy your life at 24 years of age. You are only 24 once, but please be SAFE. TinaW