Do I stay?

Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 yrs and I am not really sure what is happening, I feel as though I am falling out of love with him. We have a beautiful home, friends, close to his familyetc, but I just feel the connection is going,We do support eachother and We have a laugh but I feel like I cannot really be bothered to make conversation etc. We dont make love very much and it feels like a chore at the moment, I love him dearly but just wonder if this is what happens after 8 yrs? or is this the beginning of the end. I am feeling confused.

Can you see yourself without your beautiful home, friends and family that support you in this relationship? If you can't just find out where your boredom is coming in. I was in a 17 yr relationship and I was bored out of my mind in yr #8. So I started doing my things for myself. New hobbies, swim class, jogging in the part, hanging out at book stores and coffee shops. Before I new it, I was better because I had other things to look forward to. Other things I could tell him about, we connected better because we had more to talk about. Try all those things, get busy and when you start to miss him, that all will come back. Date him all over again, get dressed up, meet him somewhere , flirt with him, you feel one way, imagine how he feels, it will get better. 8 yrs is a long time to give up on.