Can my marriage be saved

My husband and I have been married for 9yrs. The last 5 has been verry rough. he has cheated on me in the past whitch he says is my fault. I have caught him on dating sites and he says he was bored or just seeing what was out there. He looks at every a$$ that walks by. But now I found out that some woman (that he says he hasn't slept with) wants him to leave me. He says he wants to be with me. That he loves me. but I have heard so many lies out of him. He won't get rid of her. He thinks I shouldn't get upset and just be happy that he's with me. Well he left and now I think maybe I was over reacting a bit.

betty, my advise to you as a woman would be to get out of this when there's still time. f you stay with him for another five and he continues like this you'll accrue that much pain. it's not worth it. it's a marriage but it's still not worth it.